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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
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--- Quote from: BonesMS on November 18, 2018, 07:55:10 AM ---He lives quite a long way which requires either flying or several hours by train.
Until the DNA match turned up, we didn't know the other existed.
I tend to explore cemeteries for family history research. I recently visited the grave of my ancestor who fought in the Revolutionary War and found another mystery to solve.
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It's nice that you've found both a living and a deceased relative, Bones, and how lovely that you've been able to go to their grave. I do find the sight of very old graves quite sad as there isn't anyone around to tend them anymore. I've been putting flowers on the grave of an eight year old child; there's no name, it just says they died in an accident in 1946. I found that so sad that a little one passed away and there was no name to put on the grave. Just felt I needed to do something - silly, I know. It is so fascinating trying to work out what happened in the past and who various people were.
In other news, the semi stray black fluffy cat (neighbour is feeding him but says the cat doesn't settle in the house for long) almost let me stroke him today. He seems quite nervous but has such a lovely face :) xx
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Awwwwwww!!! Love the fur baby!
Twoapenny:
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing? A friend of mine has been doing some research into her family tree which has often made me think of you. She has found a distant connection to current nobility in the area she lives. The current Lord of the Manor has a huge stately home with hundreds of acres of land so we are thinking he might let his very distant cousin many times removed move in with a couple of her friends :) Lol. We searched for my birth certificate and I wasn't on the database! I got quite excited that my theory about being adopted may be proved correct :) But I came up on another database so it seems my mum really is my mum and there isn't another one out there looking for me :) Never mind.
We are seeing more of the cats as the weather's starting to warm up here and the days are getting longer. The fluffy black one isn't visiting the garden much anymore which I'm hoping might mean he's more settled in his new home and spending more time inside. We still have a circle of cats around the tree when I put the food out for the birds and we've now got a pair of seagulls who visit each morning. One of them sits on the roof of the garage waiting for me to put their breakfast out. Then he calls his friend and waits for him to arrive before they have breakfast together :) It's so sweet, I really like seeing them together like that.
How are things going with you, is the weather improving at all yet? xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on February 20, 2019, 04:43:40 AM ---Hi Bonesie, how are you doing? A friend of mine has been doing some research into her family tree which has often made me think of you. She has found a distant connection to current nobility in the area she lives. The current Lord of the Manor has a huge stately home with hundreds of acres of land so we are thinking he might let his very distant cousin many times removed move in with a couple of her friends :) Lol. We searched for my birth certificate and I wasn't on the database! I got quite excited that my theory about being adopted may be proved correct :) But I came up on another database so it seems my mum really is my mum and there isn't another one out there looking for me :) Never mind.
We are seeing more of the cats as the weather's starting to warm up here and the days are getting longer. The fluffy black one isn't visiting the garden much anymore which I'm hoping might mean he's more settled in his new home and spending more time inside. We still have a circle of cats around the tree when I put the food out for the birds and we've now got a pair of seagulls who visit each morning. One of them sits on the roof of the garage waiting for me to put their breakfast out. Then he calls his friend and waits for him to arrive before they have breakfast together :) It's so sweet, I really like seeing them together like that.
How are things going with you, is the weather improving at all yet? xx
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Hi, Tupp.
It's snowing again over here so I'm cooped up.
Your friend sounds like she could be a distant cousin of mine, lol!!! Turns out I also have royal relatives such as the Duchess of Windsor. :-)
I hope you're doing better.
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 20, 2019, 06:13:46 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on February 20, 2019, 04:43:40 AM ---Hi Bonesie, how are you doing? A friend of mine has been doing some research into her family tree which has often made me think of you. She has found a distant connection to current nobility in the area she lives. The current Lord of the Manor has a huge stately home with hundreds of acres of land so we are thinking he might let his very distant cousin many times removed move in with a couple of her friends :) Lol. We searched for my birth certificate and I wasn't on the database! I got quite excited that my theory about being adopted may be proved correct :) But I came up on another database so it seems my mum really is my mum and there isn't another one out there looking for me :) Never mind.
We are seeing more of the cats as the weather's starting to warm up here and the days are getting longer. The fluffy black one isn't visiting the garden much anymore which I'm hoping might mean he's more settled in his new home and spending more time inside. We still have a circle of cats around the tree when I put the food out for the birds and we've now got a pair of seagulls who visit each morning. One of them sits on the roof of the garage waiting for me to put their breakfast out. Then he calls his friend and waits for him to arrive before they have breakfast together :) It's so sweet, I really like seeing them together like that.
How are things going with you, is the weather improving at all yet? xx
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Hi, Tupp.
It's snowing again over here so I'm cooped up.
Your friend sounds like she could be a distant cousin of mine, lol!!! Turns out I also have royal relatives such as the Duchess of Windsor. :-)
I hope you're doing better.
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Wow, Bonesie, you're royalty! You need to claim your birthright - they've got loads of spare castles over here :) Lol. It's so interesting that so many people are connected in so many ways. I'll let you know if my friend finds any more connections!
I am doing better now, thanks xx I hope the snow clears soon. We've been lucky and avoided it - I'm hoping we're heading into spring now. I just feel better when we have more sun and the weather's warmer :) Have you had the amazing moon the last few nights? xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on February 21, 2019, 03:02:18 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 20, 2019, 06:13:46 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on February 20, 2019, 04:43:40 AM ---Hi Bonesie, how are you doing? A friend of mine has been doing some research into her family tree which has often made me think of you. She has found a distant connection to current nobility in the area she lives. The current Lord of the Manor has a huge stately home with hundreds of acres of land so we are thinking he might let his very distant cousin many times removed move in with a couple of her friends :) Lol. We searched for my birth certificate and I wasn't on the database! I got quite excited that my theory about being adopted may be proved correct :) But I came up on another database so it seems my mum really is my mum and there isn't another one out there looking for me :) Never mind.
We are seeing more of the cats as the weather's starting to warm up here and the days are getting longer. The fluffy black one isn't visiting the garden much anymore which I'm hoping might mean he's more settled in his new home and spending more time inside. We still have a circle of cats around the tree when I put the food out for the birds and we've now got a pair of seagulls who visit each morning. One of them sits on the roof of the garage waiting for me to put their breakfast out. Then he calls his friend and waits for him to arrive before they have breakfast together :) It's so sweet, I really like seeing them together like that.
How are things going with you, is the weather improving at all yet? xx
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Hi, Tupp.
It's snowing again over here so I'm cooped up.
Your friend sounds like she could be a distant cousin of mine, lol!!! Turns out I also have royal relatives such as the Duchess of Windsor. :-)
I hope you're doing better.
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Wow, Bonesie, you're royalty! You need to claim your birthright - they've got loads of spare castles over here :) Lol. It's so interesting that so many people are connected in so many ways. I'll let you know if my friend finds any more connections!
I am doing better now, thanks xx I hope the snow clears soon. We've been lucky and avoided it - I'm hoping we're heading into spring now. I just feel better when we have more sun and the weather's warmer :) Have you had the amazing moon the last few nights? xx
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Lol! I wouldn't mind visiting a few castles! Lol!
I haven't been outside at night to check out the moon though.
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