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« Reply #8250 on: November 26, 2019, 03:55:20 AM »
Hope you hear soon, Bones.

And that you have a place and people for Thanksgiving, or if not, a peaceful day at home.

Happy cat videos! (I'm stuck on dog ones.)

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« Reply #8251 on: December 15, 2019, 03:57:40 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie, have you had any more news yet?  Hope you are okay, I think about you most days x

Grey Boy Long Legs came to visit me yesterday.  I was out on the front step drinking my tea and he sauntered over, plonked himself down next to me and presented his belly for a rub :)  Obviously I obliged, he lay there for about five minutes before getting up and sauntering off again.  Lol.  I'm wondering if he has a circuit of belly rubbers that he visits throughout the day? xx

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« Reply #8252 on: December 15, 2019, 05:30:25 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie, have you had any more news yet?  Hope you are okay, I think about you most days x

Grey Boy Long Legs came to visit me yesterday.  I was out on the front step drinking my tea and he sauntered over, plonked himself down next to me and presented his belly for a rub :)  Obviously I obliged, he lay there for about five minutes before getting up and sauntering off again.  Lol.  I'm wondering if he has a circuit of belly rubbers that he visits throughout the day? xx

LOL!  He sounds cute!

The blood tests came back okay and the doctor took some cell samples to send to the lab.  I haven't heard anything else about that last test.  I guess no news is good news?
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« Reply #8253 on: December 15, 2019, 06:12:02 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie, have you had any more news yet?  Hope you are okay, I think about you most days x

Grey Boy Long Legs came to visit me yesterday.  I was out on the front step drinking my tea and he sauntered over, plonked himself down next to me and presented his belly for a rub :)  Obviously I obliged, he lay there for about five minutes before getting up and sauntering off again.  Lol.  I'm wondering if he has a circuit of belly rubbers that he visits throughout the day? xx

LOL!  He sounds cute!

The blood tests came back okay and the doctor took some cell samples to send to the lab.  I haven't heard anything else about that last test.  I guess no news is good news?

I will keep my fingers crossed that no news is good news, I know that here they tend to contact people quickly if there's something unpleasant so I'd guess it would be the same there?  Fingers crossed that means all is well :)

He is so cute!  He and my cat have staring competitions; she sits on the window ledge looking out into the front garden and he sits in the front garden and they just eye ball each other for ages :)  Lol xx

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« Reply #8254 on: December 15, 2019, 09:51:59 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie, have you had any more news yet?  Hope you are okay, I think about you most days x

Grey Boy Long Legs came to visit me yesterday.  I was out on the front step drinking my tea and he sauntered over, plonked himself down next to me and presented his belly for a rub :)  Obviously I obliged, he lay there for about five minutes before getting up and sauntering off again.  Lol.  I'm wondering if he has a circuit of belly rubbers that he visits throughout the day? xx

LOL!  He sounds cute!

The blood tests came back okay and the doctor took some cell samples to send to the lab.  I haven't heard anything else about that last test.  I guess no news is good news?

I will keep my fingers crossed that no news is good news, I know that here they tend to contact people quickly if there's something unpleasant so I'd guess it would be the same there?  Fingers crossed that means all is well :)

He is so cute!  He and my cat have staring competitions; she sits on the window ledge looking out into the front garden and he sits in the front garden and they just eye ball each other for ages :)  Lol xx

They did tell me they will refer me to another ultrasound in three months.

Cats are funny!
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« Reply #8255 on: December 15, 2019, 11:18:49 AM »
Bones, I'm glad to hear an update...
Three months to the ultrasound sounds encouraging, as in "watch and wait" -- I guess if they thought something dangerous was happening fast, they'd not let you wait.

Hope you're coping and have LOTS of excellent cat videos.

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« Reply #8256 on: January 13, 2020, 02:24:24 AM »
We've discovered a new cat, Bonesie!  Pure white, big bushy tail (almost looks like a squirrel lol), very friendly and hangs around the bus stop!  Loves to sit on people's laps while they wait for the bus and has, I'm told, got on the bus a few times and had to be shooed off :)  The owner came out when we were stroking her and asked if we wanted to have her; they are having to re-home because their child has developed an allergy to the fur and is getting asthma attacks.  I had to say no; our cat hates other cats and we can't really afford another pet.  But she is just soooo cute it was difficult to resist!

How have you been lately?  Is the weather starting to improve yet?  We're getting more daylight now and it's quite mild at the moment, but heavy rain quite a lot of the time so I seem to be constantly cleaning mud off the floor lol xx

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« Reply #8257 on: January 13, 2020, 09:04:26 AM »
We've discovered a new cat, Bonesie!  Pure white, big bushy tail (almost looks like a squirrel lol), very friendly and hangs around the bus stop!  Loves to sit on people's laps while they wait for the bus and has, I'm told, got on the bus a few times and had to be shooed off :)  The owner came out when we were stroking her and asked if we wanted to have her; they are having to re-home because their child has developed an allergy to the fur and is getting asthma attacks.  I had to say no; our cat hates other cats and we can't really afford another pet.  But she is just soooo cute it was difficult to resist!

How have you been lately?  Is the weather starting to improve yet?  We're getting more daylight now and it's quite mild at the moment, but heavy rain quite a lot of the time so I seem to be constantly cleaning mud off the floor lol xx

Oh, what a CUTIE!!!!

I'm still taking things one day at a time.
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« Reply #8258 on: January 16, 2020, 08:32:49 AM »
We've discovered a new cat, Bonesie!  Pure white, big bushy tail (almost looks like a squirrel lol), very friendly and hangs around the bus stop!  Loves to sit on people's laps while they wait for the bus and has, I'm told, got on the bus a few times and had to be shooed off :)  The owner came out when we were stroking her and asked if we wanted to have her; they are having to re-home because their child has developed an allergy to the fur and is getting asthma attacks.  I had to say no; our cat hates other cats and we can't really afford another pet.  But she is just soooo cute it was difficult to resist!

How have you been lately?  Is the weather starting to improve yet?  We're getting more daylight now and it's quite mild at the moment, but heavy rain quite a lot of the time so I seem to be constantly cleaning mud off the floor lol xx

Oh, what a CUTIE!!!!

I'm still taking things one day at a time.

One day at a time is a good plan, I think :)  The weather is so bad here at the moment that there are no cats to be seen; they are very wisely staying indoors where it's warm :) xx

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« Reply #8259 on: January 16, 2020, 08:51:11 AM »
We've discovered a new cat, Bonesie!  Pure white, big bushy tail (almost looks like a squirrel lol), very friendly and hangs around the bus stop!  Loves to sit on people's laps while they wait for the bus and has, I'm told, got on the bus a few times and had to be shooed off :)  The owner came out when we were stroking her and asked if we wanted to have her; they are having to re-home because their child has developed an allergy to the fur and is getting asthma attacks.  I had to say no; our cat hates other cats and we can't really afford another pet.  But she is just soooo cute it was difficult to resist!

How have you been lately?  Is the weather starting to improve yet?  We're getting more daylight now and it's quite mild at the moment, but heavy rain quite a lot of the time so I seem to be constantly cleaning mud off the floor lol xx

Oh, what a CUTIE!!!!

I'm still taking things one day at a time.

One day at a time is a good plan, I think :)  The weather is so bad here at the moment that there are no cats to be seen; they are very wisely staying indoors where it's warm :) xx

Smart Fur Babies.
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« Reply #8260 on: March 21, 2020, 03:51:24 AM »
How are you doing over there, Bonesie?  It's very strange here at the minute.  So much has closed down.  I hope you are okay and able to get food and medication, if necessary.  And I hope there are some cute fur babies to spy from the window xx

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« Reply #8261 on: March 22, 2020, 08:46:23 AM »
How are you doing over there, Bonesie?  It's very strange here at the minute.  So much has closed down.  I hope you are okay and able to get food and medication, if necessary.  And I hope there are some cute fur babies to spy from the window xx

Thanks, Tup.

I landed in the hospital for 24 hours where I was kept in quarantine before they sent me home to shelter in place until my COVID-19 test results come back.  It felt like being in a sci-fi movie where hospital staff were in haz-mat.
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« Reply #8262 on: March 22, 2020, 08:53:28 AM »
Aaack!
I hope very much you don't have it, Bones.

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« Reply #8263 on: March 22, 2020, 09:31:59 AM »
Aaack!
I hope very much you don't have it, Bones.

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« Reply #8264 on: March 23, 2020, 04:28:26 AM »
How are you doing over there, Bonesie?  It's very strange here at the minute.  So much has closed down.  I hope you are okay and able to get food and medication, if necessary.  And I hope there are some cute fur babies to spy from the window xx

Thanks, Tup.

I landed in the hospital for 24 hours where I was kept in quarantine before they sent me home to shelter in place until my COVID-19 test results come back.  It felt like being in a sci-fi movie where hospital staff were in haz-mat.

Oh Bonesie, I'm so sorry to hear that, yep, it is living in some sort of dystopian sci fi movie right now, in all honesty I never thought I would see anything like that.  I will keep everything crossed that the results are negative.  Were they able to tell you when they get the results back?  I imagine they're swamped at the minute.  Take very good care of you, Bonesie, I'll be thinking of you when the cute cats come to visit later xx