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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Hopalong on December 24, 2020, 09:14:50 PM ---BONES!
So glad your voice is back.
I hope the health troubles have passed.
Much peace to you.
hugs
Hops
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I'm staying shut in as the Pandemic is still going here as a result of Halloween, Thanksgiving, and now Christmas.
Bettyanne:
My therapist said my NM had narcissistic traits and a borderline personality.
She was mostly very in charge of everything.....although I realize she didn't know everything?
What ever she said was what was done.......my dad and her mother who screamed and yelled a lot put up with her all the time and acted afraid of her........me being the kid I was afraid too.but I had no choice.......
Life was insane and I knew it from the time I was about four years old.
So yes I believe their behavior does Violate others...........
I felt no one mattered but herself......she had very little compassion or loving ways ......if she acted nice or put that smile on her face I realized over time she wanted something from me to do for her.
She wanted no part of home.......she was a secretary to men in the old days and I would hear at home she was kissing their ass......not literally.
Life was truly about herself.......
When my dad died age 51 she told me she was so glad he was dead.......I think that was an awful thing to say to her only daughter. I loved my dad and he was kind and loving unlike her.
My own husband passed a way just 3 months ago and that goes through my mind.....never would I ever say such a thing.......I loved him truly and miss him so so much.
I could go on and on here......PS she died at age 100 plus and omg what a selfish individual, in 2008.
Bettyanne
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Bettyanne on December 26, 2020, 07:47:42 PM ---My therapist said my NM had narcissistic traits and a borderline personality.
She was mostly very in charge of everything.....although I realize she didn't know everything?
What ever she said was what was done.......my dad and her mother who screamed and yelled a lot put up with her all the time and acted afraid of her........me being the kid I was afraid too.but I had no choice.......
Life was insane and I knew it from the time I was about four years old.
So yes I believe their behavior does Violate others...........
I felt no one mattered but herself......she had very little compassion or loving ways ......if she acted nice or put that smile on her face I realized over time she wanted something from me to do for her.
She wanted no part of home.......she was a secretary to men in the old days and I would hear at home she was kissing their ass......not literally.
Life was truly about herself.......
When my dad died age 51 she told me she was so glad he was dead.......I think that was an awful thing to say to her only daughter. I loved my dad and he was kind and loving unlike her.
My own husband passed a way just 3 months ago and that goes through my mind.....never would I ever say such a thing.......I loved him truly and miss him so so much.
I could go on and on here......PS she died at age 100 plus and omg what a selfish individual, in 2008.
Bettyanne
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Hi, Bettyanne.
My Birth Breeder was a Narcissistic Rageaholic and Karma eventually caught up with her. She died in 1997.
Bettyanne:
How old was she BonesMS...?
I think some of these N live such long lives......just to get their anger out......and out and out.
Never to feel compassion or love........
God I think I am lucky to be alive sometimes and other times I feel it was so unfair.
Thanks for this discussion.....
Bettyanne. xoxo
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Bettyanne on December 27, 2020, 03:22:30 PM ---How old was she BonesMS...?
I think some of these N live such long lives......just to get their anger out......and out and out.
Never to feel compassion or love........
God I think I am lucky to be alive sometimes and other times I feel it was so unfair.
Thanks for this discussion.....
Bettyanne. xoxo
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She died at the age of 84 after she lost everything.
You're welcome.
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