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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
It's been awhile since I posted and wanted to check in.
I'm trying to figure out my emotions regarding the death of a narcissist this past Friday.
Part of me feels sad for his twin brother as no one saw this death coming.
Another part of me feels relieved that this narcissist won't be driving everybody crazy anymore.
Hopalong:
Good to hear you, Bones.
I was just reading a Carolyn Hax column about someone's ambivalent grief...imo, your mixed feelings are totally normal and nothing to judge. If you feel even other unexpected shades of feelings as you process this N's death, that's normal too.
Twins and one of them an N? Wow. Complicated for the non-N one.
Welcome back,
Hops
lighter:
Hi, Bones:
There's nothing wrong with any feelings you have. They're all part of you. They all belong.
I think relief is normal and appropriate, btw.
Glad to see you back on the board.
Lighter
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Hopalong on July 19, 2021, 05:34:31 PM ---Good to hear you, Bones.
I was just reading a Carolyn Hax column about someone's ambivalent grief...imo, your mixed feelings are totally normal and nothing to judge. If you feel even other unexpected shades of feelings as you process this N's death, that's normal too.
Twins and one of them an N? Wow. Complicated for the non-N one.
Welcome back,
Hops
--- End quote ---
It was real complicated for the non-N twin. I'm silently thinking: "Dobbin is a free elf."
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: lighter on July 19, 2021, 05:54:29 PM ---Hi, Bones:
There's nothing wrong with any feelings you have. They're all part of you. They all belong.
I think relief is normal and appropriate, btw.
Glad to see you back on the board.
Lighter
--- End quote ---
Thanks.
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