Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[isittoolate]

Ditto

[changing]

Hi Bonesy-

Maybe you can set up an exchange with NDoofus- you get your stuff, she gets yours. Have a friend there with you (don't tell NDoofus this beforehand) and plans for directly afterward, be polite with NDoofus and then after the items ae exchanged- SPLIT!

Love,

Changing

[Leah]

Hi Bones,

Can't imagine for one moment that you have any time for boredom?! 

Take care of yourself.

Love, Leah

[BonesMS]

Hi Bonesy-

Maybe you can set up an exchange with NDoofus- you get your stuff, she gets yours. Have a friend there with you (don't tell NDoofus this beforehand) and plans for directly afterward, be polite with NDoofus and then after the items ae exchanged- SPLIT!

Love,

Changing

Thanks, Changing!

Right now, I don't even have the time to do that!

Bones

[BonesMS]

Hi Bones,

Can't imagine for one moment that you have any time for boredom?! 

Take care of yourself.

Love, Leah

Thanks, Leah!

I haven't even had the time to do Christmas cards, let alone Christmas shopping.  I got only one present for boyfriend.

Bones

[Leah]

Dear Bones,

Truly, I'm not surprised that you have not had any spare time to do Christmas cards, and Christmas shopping. 

Here's hoping that you manage to obtain what you are looking for, in one swoop, for your dear boyfriend!

Bin the stress!

Love, Leah

[BonesMS]

Dear Bones,

Truly, I'm not surprised that you have not had any spare time to do Christmas cards, and Christmas shopping. 

Here's hoping that you manage to obtain what you are looking for, in one swoop, for your dear boyfriend!

Bin the stress!

Love, Leah

Thanks, Leah.

I just got home from work a little while ago and trying to unwind enough to go to sleep.

Bones

[BonesMS]

I'm taking it easy tonight because I picked up a viral infection from somewhere.  Between working, shopping, participating in volunteer activities, etc., the inevitable exposure to the common cold or possibly flu has finally happened.

Bones

[Leah]

I'm taking it easy tonight because I picked up a viral infection from somewhere.  Between working, shopping, participating in volunteer activities, etc., the inevitable exposure to the common cold or possibly flu has finally happened.

Bones

Dear (((( Bones ))))

All too inevitable when mixing with so many people, and invariably each year, around this time, I end up being hit with a cold or flu.

Take good care of yourself.

Love, Leah

[BonesMS]

I'm taking it easy tonight because I picked up a viral infection from somewhere.  Between working, shopping, participating in volunteer activities, etc., the inevitable exposure to the common cold or possibly flu has finally happened.

Bones

Dear (((( Bones ))))

All too inevitable when mixing with so many people, and invariably each year, around this time, I end up being hit with a cold or flu.

Take good care of yourself.

Love, Leah

Thanks, Leah.

Bones

[BonesMS]

I have to go back to work tonight given that I can't stay home sick for too long.  (I don't get sick leave.)  I'm resting as much as possible.

One thing I noticed, when I was working Sunday night, quite a few of the clients seem to have N tendencies.  I had the clients settled down, (or so I thought) and was writing case notes when one of the clients walked up behind me and peered over my shoulder.  I was so startled that I almost hit him reflexively.  He demanded to know what I was doing and what I was writing.  My response:  "I BEG YOUR PARDON?!?!?!?  GET TO BED!!!!"

Bones

[Leah]

I have to go back to work tonight given that I can't stay home sick for too long.  (I don't get sick leave.)  I'm resting as much as possible.

One thing I noticed, when I was working Sunday night, quite a few of the clients seem to have N tendencies.  I had the clients settled down, (or so Ithought) and was writing case notes when one of the clients walked up behind me and peered over my shoulder.  I was so startled that I almost hit him reflexively.  He demanded to know what I was doing and what I was writing.  My response:  "I BEG YOUR PARDON?!?!?!?  GET TO BED!!!!"

Bones

Dear Bones,

Was about to write and ask how you were today.  It's hard when you don't have sick leave, but, you are wisely resting as much as possible, and that's about all you can do.

Do hope you have a relatively 'easy' night with no hassles.

Well Done You!!!  You handled Sunday night's situation wonderfully. 

   Smiling because i am picturing you acting reflexively, understandably .


One thing I do find most uncomfortable is someone standing over my shoulder.

All the best tonight.  Take care of you.

Love, Leah

[BonesMS]

I have to go back to work tonight given that I can't stay home sick for too long.  (I don't get sick leave.)  I'm resting as much as possible.

One thing I noticed, when I was working Sunday night, quite a few of the clients seem to have N tendencies.  I had the clients settled down, (or so I thought) and was writing case notes when one of the clients walked up behind me and peered over my shoulder.  I was so startled that I almost hit him reflexively.  He demanded to know what I was doing and what I was writing.  My response:  "I BEG YOUR PARDON?!?!?!?  GET TO BED!!!!"

Bones

Dear Bones,

Was about to write and ask how you were today.  It's hard when you don't have sick leave, but, you are wisely resting as much as possible, and that's about all you can do.

Do hope you have a relatively 'easy' night with no hassles.

Well Done You!!!  You handled Sunday night's situation wonderfully. 

   Smiling because i am picturing you acting reflexively, understandably .


One thing I do find most uncomfortable is someone standing over my shoulder.

All the best tonight.  Take care of you.

Love, Leah

Thanks, Leah!

I was ticked that this client attempted to poke his nose where it clearly did NOT belong!  Some of the clients I encounter seem to have this attitude of "I'M ENTITLED!"  Sheesh!

Bones

[BonesMS]

I just learned that one of the worst clients we had last year is attempting to return this year.  God help us!

Bones

[BonesMS]

The more I work with the current group of clients, the more I realize that it appears to be N-ish to violate other people's boundaries.  (Most of this group also has a problem with any kind of authority.)

Bones