Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1304346 times)

BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #660 on: December 02, 2008, 07:42:47 AM »
Hey Bones,

I am sending you a big wide gentle strong safe hug from MAMA UNIVERSE.

She's waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay bigger than the one you were accidentally assigned to.

You got love. Big as the ocean.

You too, Ami.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #661 on: December 07, 2008, 07:30:43 AM »
NDoofus attempted to call while I was sick with asthmatic bronchitis.  Didn't bother to pick up the phone when I saw her number on the Caller ID.  I was in no mood to deal with her.  I know bf meant well when he contacted her to tell her of my health issues.  I just don't need her aggravation.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #662 on: December 07, 2008, 05:42:35 PM »
I see that the N's are missing the piece that allows them to "feel out" situations. I have heard it called executive function(ie higher brain function)
 Whatever you call it, they are clueless in Modern Terms.
     Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #663 on: December 08, 2008, 10:14:36 AM »
I see that the N's are missing the piece that allows them to "feel out" situations. I have heard it called executive function(ie higher brain function)
 Whatever you call it, they are clueless in Modern Terms.
     Ami

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #664 on: December 10, 2008, 06:19:52 AM »
While resting in bed yesterday morning, I was watching a case on Judge Mathis.  In this case, the defendant appeared to be a Narcissistic Rage-aholic in full bloom!  I wasn't sure whether to laugh at her being absurd in court or feel sorry for her!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #665 on: December 10, 2008, 09:17:52 AM »
Many of those judge cases involve N's .        Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #666 on: December 10, 2008, 11:21:18 AM »
Many of those judge cases involve N's .        Ami

It sure seems that way.  This N that I was observing was convicted of assault and indecent exposure.  When the judge asked her about it, she nonchalantly admitted to pulling her pants down in the middle of a grocery store and acted as if she had the right to do it!  (*Still shaking head*)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #667 on: December 10, 2008, 12:59:56 PM »
Many of the cases involve s/one being nice to an N and the N takes them for a ride to Hell.       Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #668 on: December 11, 2008, 09:32:35 AM »
So true!

What made this case seemed different is that the N assaulted a total stranger for no legitimate reason.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #669 on: December 13, 2008, 12:37:24 AM »
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acted as if she had the right to do it!

entitlement + no empathy = everything wrong in the world

Hope
you
feel
better
Bones

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #670 on: December 13, 2008, 09:13:34 AM »
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acted as if she had the right to do it!

entitlement + no empathy = everything wrong in the world

Hope
you
feel
better
Bones

xo
Hops

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I hope you are feeling better too.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #671 on: December 13, 2008, 09:16:42 AM »
After hearing on the news, this past Thursday, about the child's remains found near the home of Caylee's grandparents, it made me wonder if Caylee's womb-donor and N.  Your thoughts?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #672 on: December 13, 2008, 10:14:12 AM »
I think N is not that bad compared  to  sociopath or psychopath.
My M  knows right and wrong and she is an N.    Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #673 on: December 15, 2008, 03:55:24 PM »
I think N is not that bad compared  to  sociopath or psychopath.
My M  knows right and wrong and she is an N.    Ami

I'm beginning to wonder if Caylee's womb-donor is a combination of N and sociopath/psychopath.

I'm in a bad mood today as my car got broken into during the weekend and glass went everywhere.  Whoever it was rifled through my glove compartment but found only papers related to emissions inspections.  Already talked to the police.  They didn't bother taking any fingerprints...just handed me a brochure with the case number.  My insurance has already had the busted window replaced.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #674 on: December 15, 2008, 07:14:49 PM »
Bones, it never rains but it pours...
and sleets,
and hails

Sorry you've had a tough day.

You must be overlimit on the stressors.

How's exercise going for you?
I haven't been, and I urgently need to start walking...

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