Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

And, Bones, kudos to you for starting the most popular, most read and most responded to thread.... 

Thanks, Ales2!

Bones

[Ales2]

Ami - great thoughts about accepting them as they are and not expecting anything to change - we change instead.

Bones - reclaiming boundaries is probably the right thing to do - reclaiming meaning stating he overstepped boundaries last time and I was silent because I was trying to understand and wont allow that in the future. You are right on this one!

Thanks to you both for your responses.

[BonesMS]

Ami - great thoughts about accepting them as they are and not expecting anything to change - we change instead.

Bones - reclaiming boundaries is probably the right thing to do - reclaiming meaning stating he overstepped boundaries last time and I was silent because I was trying to understand and wont allow that in the future. You are right on this one!

Thanks to you both for your responses.

You're welcome, Ales2!

Bones

[BonesMS]

A couple of random thoughts here and there....

I've been reading the threads about how the NWomb-Donors used food as a form of control and abuse.  It reminded me of one time that the NWomb-Donor took NGCB to the pediatrician and complained about him being fat.  The pediatrician suggested a diet to put him on...e.g. skim milk instead of regular milk, sherbet instead of ice cream, etc.  NWomb-Donor NEVER admitted to the doctor that she was allowing NGCB to eat NON-STOP while forcing me to wash EVERY DISH HE DIRTIED!!!!

Another website that a friend told me about is "Mother-in-law stories".  She reads them because they remind her of her ex-mother-in-law and she finds them funny.  It helps her to laugh at the H3!! she left behind when she sent N-Mommy's-baby back to his NWomb-Donor!  I read through a few of the stories and it makes me think of "NIGHTMARES WITH AN N!"

Bones

[BonesMS]

Being a resident of the DC Metro area, my emotions are all over the place this morning.

The DC Sniper is scheduled to be executed this evening and I still feel INTENSE RAGE AND HATRED toward that monster for what he did to us!

Bones

[Ami]

(((((Bones))))                                                     xxo Ami

[BonesMS]

(((((Bones))))                                                     xxo Ami

Thanks, (((((((((((((((Ami)))))))))))))))))))))))))

Bones

[BonesMS]

It's over.  The Beltway Sniper is gone for good.

One of his letters, to one of his ex-wives, was published after his execution.

The tone sounds like the usual Narcissistic snarkiness.

Why am I not surprised?

Bones

[BonesMS]

To switch gears, I've been reading postings from the website below and MANY of the situations sound like these poor gals and guys are dealing with FLAMING N's!

http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/10/objection-anyone/

However, one of the advising postings, in response to the described scenario, was LAUGH-OUT-LOUD-FUNNY!!!!   

With the tradition of tossing the bridal bouquet at the wedding, have the NMIL Toss!!  The farther the toss, the better the luck for the new bride and groom!   

Bones

[BonesMS]

Just touching base.

Bones

[Ami]

Hi ((((Bones)))). How you feeling?                           Ami

[BonesMS]

Hi ((((Bones)))). How you feeling?                           Ami

Feeling a little tired right now.

I've been working on taking the ICS Prerequisites and passing those tests in order to become completely FEMA compliant.

Bones

[swimmer]

Bones-

Congrats!  Yes... Classic..... deer in the headlights responses to your attempts to reclaim your moment.  Glad to hear you still enjoyed your moment.  This "friend" sounds terminally N... what a bundle of distraction to the joys of life....

swimmer

[BonesMS]

Bones-

Congrats!  Yes... Classic..... deer in the headlights responses to your attempts to reclaim your moment.  Glad to hear you still enjoyed your moment.  This "friend" sounds terminally N... what a bundle of distraction to the joys of life....

swimmer

Thanks, Swimmer!

This NfrieNd, aka NDoofus, has been permanently cut off.  Being NC is TOTAL BLISS!!!!

Bones

[BonesMS]

Just an update...

I received the first of the FEMA certificates that document that I officially passed one of their courses!

Bones