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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1155 on: December 14, 2009, 08:34:42 AM »
How you today, Bones?                                                               xxoo  Ami

Feeling depressed today.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1156 on: December 14, 2009, 08:52:22 AM »
Why, Bones?     
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1157 on: December 14, 2009, 09:56:21 AM »
Why, Bones?     

Seasonal Affective Disorder

Christmas

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1158 on: December 14, 2009, 07:11:12 PM »
Yes, it is sure easy to get depressed with all the NM baggage we carry around and then you add Life stuff on top  :shock: :shock: :shock: . Sending you warm fuzzies!             xxxoo   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1159 on: December 14, 2009, 10:58:04 PM »
Yes, it is sure easy to get depressed with all the NM baggage we carry around and then you add Life stuff on top  :shock: :shock: :shock: . Sending you warm fuzzies!             xxxoo   Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1160 on: December 15, 2009, 06:12:33 AM »
Just checking in.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1161 on: December 16, 2009, 07:16:23 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1162 on: December 16, 2009, 10:23:10 PM »
Okay, Bones.
We both got our snuggies on (those flappy humansandwichbags they sell on TV).
Mine's green, your's red.

So we're shuffling on up to the roof of our apartment building.

It's kind of cruddy up there and we're walking like two old ladies with loads in our diapers, but we'll get there.

And when we go out, the night sky is so deep and so black tonight that the stars are like somebody punched a million tiny holes in velvet and their light is the most amazingly pure and beautiful thing we've ever seen.

We just gape at it, kind of leaning on each other so we don't fall over, until we gets cricks in our necks.

The air is really cold but really feels clean.

Then we look out over the city, say one two three and yell at the top of our creaky lungs in unison:

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Humbugggggggggggggggggggggggg!

And go back inside for some hot chocolate.

love,
Hops
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1163 on: December 17, 2009, 06:54:44 AM »
Okay, Bones.
We both got our snuggies on (those flappy humansandwichbags they sell on TV).
Mine's green, your's red.

So we're shuffling on up to the roof of our apartment building.

It's kind of cruddy up there and we're walking like two old ladies with loads in our diapers, but we'll get there.

And when we go out, the night sky is so deep and so black tonight that the stars are like somebody punched a million tiny holes in velvet and their light is the most amazingly pure and beautiful thing we've ever seen.

We just gape at it, kind of leaning on each other so we don't fall over, until we gets cricks in our necks.

The air is really cold but really feels clean.

Then we look out over the city, say one two three and yell at the top of our creaky lungs in unison:

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Humbugggggggggggggggggggggggg!

And go back inside for some hot chocolate.

love,
Hops

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1164 on: December 17, 2009, 08:58:04 AM »
Hi ((((Bones)))))            xxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1165 on: December 17, 2009, 09:17:53 AM »
Hi ((((Bones)))))            xxxoo  Ami

Hi, ((((((((((((((((((((((Ami)))))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1166 on: December 18, 2009, 05:41:22 AM »
When I read the first letter in this advice column, my first thought is that the letter-writer is dealing with a Narcissist.

What do you think?

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/and-happy-holidays-to-you-too.html

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1167 on: December 19, 2009, 05:49:37 AM »
Snowed in today.   :|

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1168 on: December 19, 2009, 08:49:51 AM »
Sounds like an N (((Bonesie))))). Is it cozy being snowed in?                        Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1169 on: December 19, 2009, 05:32:35 PM »
((((((Bones))))))) have a peaceful nurturing non-holiday!  You are not alone.... Just remember, there is a lot of sadness behind the drunk cheer this time of year.  You've brought cheer to this forum just by being yourself.  Not many people can say that.

Swimmer:)