Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Tried, again, to communicate last night about my current situation.  Basically got the "blank stare", like "nobody's home".  I feel as if I'm totally ALONE in face-to-face situations.  Online communications are insufficient.

Bones

[Ami]

I am sorry((( Bones))). It sounds really, really hard!           xxxoo Ami

[BonesMS]

I am sorry((( Bones))). It sounds really, really hard!           xxxoo Ami

It's FRUSTRATING!!!!!

Bones

[Ami]

Yeah--really, really frustrating!!!!!!                        Ami

[BonesMS]

Yeah--really, really frustrating!!!!!!                        Ami

Why does it seem that some men are so oblivious?

Bones

[BonesMS]

Mr. Oblivious asked me to tell him what I needed grocery-wise so I sent him an e-mail, with the list of items I need, asking him to acknowledge receipt of said e-mail.  Response?  NOTHING!  Then he showed up, last night, empty-handed except for HIS stuff for HIS birds!  I asked him did he get the e-mail with the grocery list.  He responds:  "Yes.  I'll get 'round to it later" while IGNORING the EMPTY refrigerator and EMPTY freezer!!!!!  And he can't understand WHY I'm FRUSTRATED!!!!!!  WTF??????????????????????????

Bones

[HeartofPilgrimage]

What did you say or do when he said he'd get around to it later?

[BonesMS]

What did you say or do when he said he'd get around to it later?

I told him that I'm feeling FRUSTRATED about the situation!

Bones

[HeartofPilgrimage]

Good for you! Did he look at you blankly when you said that, or did he get what you were trying to tell him?

[BonesMS]

Good for you! Did he look at you blankly when you said that, or did he get what you were trying to tell him?

Basically, I got the blank look and a repeat of "I'll get 'round to it later".  He waited so late to show up that the grocery store was already closed.

Bones

[BonesMS]

He brought me some groceries last night, after I had gone to bed.  Then woke me up to tell me he had forgotten and left other groceries in his car.   

Bones

[BonesMS]

He showed up, empty-handed, last night.

When I questioned him about his statement about forgetting groceries in his car, he commented that it was "only corn for his birds".  What he did bring was enough for only ONE day.  I put my grocery list IN HIS HANDS and then he admitted that he didn't REALLY read the e-mail I had previously sent him with the grocery items!   

Why BOTHER to ask me for a grocery list if he's not going to really look at it?

Bones

[Ami]

Yes,an amateur doing grocery shopping can be very frustrating. Most men are not too good at it. I trained my boys to be great shoppers --even veggies  . They were like old ladies!                 x o x o  Ami

[BonesMS]

Yes,an amateur doing grocery shopping can be very frustrating. Most men are not too good at it. I trained my boys to be great shoppers --even veggies  . They were like old ladies!                 x o x o  Ami

And he claims to be a vegetarian so you would think he would know how to shop for vegetables and vegetarian cuisine!

Bones

[BonesMS]

 

Bones