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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1365 on: February 06, 2010, 05:53:29 AM »
Woke up at 4:00 in the morning, got a cuppa coffee, looked outside and it appears to be at least TWO FEET of snow on the ground and it's STILL COMING DOWN HARD!  The weather people are predicting that this Blizzard will continue ALL DAY until 10:00 PM TONIGHT!!!!!  Oh-h-h-h-h-h joy, joy!   :P

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« Reply #1366 on: February 07, 2010, 04:41:01 AM »
The electricity went off at about 2:30 PM Saturday afternoon and finally came back on at about 2:00 AM Sunday morning!  NOT FUN!!!   :P :P :P

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« Reply #1367 on: February 07, 2010, 07:27:57 AM »
Yes ((((Bones)))) I heard about your situation on the radio. I am so sorry. x o x o  Ami
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« Reply #1368 on: February 07, 2010, 07:33:47 AM »
Yes ((((Bones)))) I heard about your situation on the radio. I am so sorry. x o x o  Ami

NONE of this is fun AT ALL!!!!  Mail has been suspended and I'm seeing on the news that even the religious institutions around here have canceled their services because EVERYTHING IS STUCK!

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« Reply #1369 on: February 07, 2010, 09:12:41 AM »
Hi Bones,
...same winter wonderland.
We lost power last night. My tenant slept in front of the fireplace and I read for hours by candlelight.
It was getting chilly but we do have shelter and plenty of blankets...

Today it's incredibly beautiful, icicles along the roof (right out my window), all the trees are an entirely new dimension, coated thick, whole new shapes, or their own shapes made powerful by the snow, everything white and sparkling. That's the pretty side.

The downside is...more snow Tuesday. This has been the most challenging winter I can remember, and the most snow accumulation here in recorded history. Quite sobering in that sense.

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« Reply #1370 on: February 07, 2010, 09:23:34 AM »
Hi Bones,
...same winter wonderland.
We lost power last night. My tenant slept in front of the fireplace and I read for hours by candlelight.
It was getting chilly but we do have shelter and plenty of blankets...

Today it's incredibly beautiful, icicles along the roof (right out my window), all the trees are an entirely new dimension, coated thick, whole new shapes, or their own shapes made powerful by the snow, everything white and sparkling. That's the pretty side.

The downside is...more snow Tuesday. This has been the most challenging winter I can remember, and the most snow accumulation here in recorded history. Quite sobering in that sense.

Hops

Sounds like you're in my neck of the woods, inclluding the Tuesday prediction of MORE SNOW! 

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« Reply #1371 on: February 08, 2010, 11:17:53 AM »
I'm subscribed to another discussion list and found I had to set a boundary.  This one (new) member started bombarding our InBoxes with silly drivel that basically translated into:  "LOOK AT ME!  I'M CUTE!  LOOK AT ME!! LOOK AT ME!!!"  I asked that he please stop as I have enough e-mails to sort through without having to deal with that.  He responded by calling me, and I quote:  "A filthy, feminist, whore pig!" Unquote.  I blocked his e-mail address and forwarded the offensive message to the discussion list's moderator.  Turns out the moderator was also receiving abusive messages from this individual, as well, after he was warned that this type of behavior is inappropriate to the discussion list.  The moderator was appalled when he saw the abusive message that was sent to me, off-list, and promptly removed the offender from the discussion list.

I told the moderator that this person sounds like he has Narcissistic Personality Disorder who refuses to respect anyone's boundaries. 

Sigh!  It seems like it's a never-ending battle with Narcissists!

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« Reply #1372 on: February 09, 2010, 06:06:58 AM »
Well, we have ANOTHER Winter Storm bearing down on my area and I hate to think what the ADDITIONAL accumulation is going to be ON TOP of what was already dumped by the Blizzard of 2010!  I told Birdbrain to PLEASE get EVERYTHING on the grocery list that I gave him as I will be UNABLE to get to the grocery story for quite a while as a result of this crazy Winter weather because my car is STILL BURIED!  What does he do instead?  Gets only a FEW items from the list, which will last no more than ONE or TWO DAYS and kept insisting that I should be okay with that!  What a !@#$-ing A$$hole! 

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P.S.  If anyone saw Monday night's episode of "House" where a hospital employee was caught stealing ephedrine and fired.  She sounded like a Flaming Narcissist when she got caught!  What did you think of the way Cuddy handled that?  I LOVED it!
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« Reply #1373 on: February 09, 2010, 07:32:28 AM »
(((((Bones under snow)))) x o x o  Ami
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« Reply #1374 on: February 09, 2010, 09:04:02 AM »
(((((Bones under snow)))) x o x o  Ami

Thanks, Ami.

I'm about to pick up and throw EVERYTHING at him, INCLUDING THE KITCHEN AND BATHROOM SINKS!

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« Reply #1375 on: February 10, 2010, 11:26:31 AM »
We're getting hit with ANOTHER BLIZZARD today and all Birdbrain will do is focus on his pets!   :P  I gave him a few choice words when he insisted on minimizing and discounting the weather predictions!   :x

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« Reply #1376 on: February 11, 2010, 06:56:32 AM »
I had been telling Ding Dong Birdbrain that we need to have an Emergency Contingency Plan to prepare for whatever emergency that occurs around here and he simply REFUSED to listen because he kept insisting that "It will NEVER happen around here!"  Well, guess what?  It's happened!  The total snowfall in my area has broken the records set in 1898 and 1899 and there is NO WAY I will be able to get out and get food for quite a while!

Then Birdbrain calls me up last night, after I went to bed, whining that he can't get out of his parking lot!  After being woken up out of a sound sleep, and FRUSTRATED about him IGNORING ALL THE WARNINGS along with discounting and minimizing everything, I was LESS than sympathetic and bluntly stated:  "TOLD YOU SO!" and hung up!

@#$!-ing MORONIC IDIOT!!!!!!   :P :evil: :twisted:

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« Reply #1377 on: February 11, 2010, 07:50:00 AM »
(((((Bones)))))
   x o x o   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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« Reply #1378 on: February 11, 2010, 08:19:22 AM »
(((((Bones)))))
   x o x o   Ami

Thanks, ((((((((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))))

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« Reply #1379 on: February 11, 2010, 04:03:34 PM »
Read a recent news report about actor Alex Baldwin being taken to a hospital after his daughter called 9-1-1.

Turns out they had been fighting and he had threatened to take a lot of pills.  (NICE way to treat a 14-year-old kid, DAD!   :P)  Based on what I read, the 14-year-old is more mature than her parents!

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