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« Reply #1500 on: April 07, 2010, 08:53:00 AM »
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« Reply #1501 on: April 07, 2010, 11:16:28 AM »
Top of the morning to you, Bonesie  :D     x o x
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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« Reply #1502 on: April 07, 2010, 02:01:39 PM »
Top of the morning to you, Bonesie  :D     x o x

Thanks, Ami!

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« Reply #1503 on: April 07, 2010, 02:09:47 PM »
I've been trying to get a home-based business started and had to deal with an N who felt he was ENTITLED to FREE services and attempted to GUILT me because I asked to be paid for my work.  He got politely told what to go do with himself!  Sheesh!!!!!

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« Reply #1504 on: April 07, 2010, 04:13:13 PM »
What really had me shaking my head when I received the e-mail from this total stranger was that he signs off with:  "I will NEVER contact you again!"  (How he found me was through my Business Facebook Page, plus another genealogy website, that mentioned fees at both places.  Did he think the word "fee" meant "free"?)   :?

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« Reply #1505 on: April 08, 2010, 06:27:52 AM »
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« Reply #1506 on: April 09, 2010, 09:05:05 AM »
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« Reply #1507 on: April 10, 2010, 10:28:43 AM »
It's still spring, Bones...

hope you've got something blooming in a little corner of your heart,
your own periwinkle blossom you can think of in the night.

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« Reply #1508 on: April 10, 2010, 12:39:31 PM »
It's still spring, Bones...

hope you've got something blooming in a little corner of your heart,
your own periwinkle blossom you can think of in the night.

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Thanks, Hops!

The flowers are definitely blooming here!  And the pollen is DEFINITELY FLYING AROUND!

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« Reply #1509 on: April 10, 2010, 12:43:19 PM »
I've been hearing on the news about that 7-year-old Russian boy who was essentially thrown away by his adoptive American mother!  I couldn't help but think....only an N would stoop that L-O-W!!!!!

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« Reply #1510 on: April 11, 2010, 12:38:39 PM »
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« Reply #1511 on: April 12, 2010, 01:22:18 AM »
Hiya Bones,
Am I on a touchy subject when I ask why you always stick in a

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to keep this thread near the top, and I so seldom see any advice from you to others????? Like I have been disabled for over 40 years and never hear from you, so if and when I read your posts, your physical problems sound 'different' from what I thought. Is it spina bifida? scoliosis? Would you please tell me about your life as a physically disabled person, so that I can better understand the problems you encounter. We never really have talked to one another!

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« Reply #1512 on: April 12, 2010, 06:46:21 AM »
Hiya Bones,
Am I on a touchy subject when I ask why you always stick in a

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to keep this thread near the top, and I so seldom see any advice from you to others????? Like I have been disabled for over 40 years and never hear from you, so if and when I read your posts, your physical problems sound 'different' from what I thought. Is it spina bifida? scoliosis? Would you please tell me about your life as a physically disabled person, so that I can better understand the problems you encounter. We never really have talked to one another!

Thank you,
Peace!
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I was born with a combination of birth defects that include both spina bifida and scoliosis, (swayback and sideways).  I also have malformed jaws and palate, making it a challenge to swallow the medications and supplements that the doctors told me I now have to take for osteoporosis.  In addition, I have asthma and was recently diagnosed with a small blockage in my heart plus orthostatic hypotension.  Combine that with PTSD, Clinical Depression, Seasonal Affective Disorder, and the possibility of Asperger's and I have a plateful.  Because of Asperger's and PTSD, others have to earn my trust before I "let them in".

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1513 on: April 12, 2010, 02:14:49 PM »
Well you do have a plateful. Are you in much pain all the time?

My mother had spina bifida and scoliosis too. Did you ever have surgery for yours?
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« Reply #1514 on: April 12, 2010, 02:20:04 PM »
Well you do have a plateful. Are you in much pain all the time?

My mother had spina bifida and scoliosis too. Did you ever have surgery for yours?

I do deal with pain.  Doctors told me that I should have had a variety of corrective surgeries while I was still a child.  NWomb-Donor ignored everything.  Now, at my age, surgery is just too risky.

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