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« Reply #2865 on: November 03, 2011, 06:10:01 AM »
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Sounds like this daughter is dealing with a Narcissistic Sperm-donor Rage-aholic.
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« Reply #2866 on: November 04, 2011, 07:09:40 AM »
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« Reply #2867 on: November 04, 2011, 02:15:59 PM »
You sure spot the good ones, Bones.

I enjoy reading these links you share.

thanks!

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« Reply #2868 on: November 04, 2011, 05:35:46 PM »
You sure spot the good ones, Bones.

I enjoy reading these links you share.

thanks!

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You're welcome, Hops!

I try my best.

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« Reply #2869 on: November 05, 2011, 02:38:57 AM »
Woke up a 2:00 AM and can't get back to sleep.   :P
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« Reply #2870 on: November 05, 2011, 01:28:58 PM »
This morning, when Mega-National Bank opened, I went in to close my checking account since I had moved everything over to a new financial institution.  At first they challenged me about WHY I had made this decision and I reiterated the numerous fees that they had dinged me with along with screwing up one of my deposits, (that I had done in person), to which it took me TWO MONTHS to straighten out, and NEVER got an apology about it.  Imagine my annoyance when the bank rep (1) denied that they had EVER charged me ANY fees EVER and (2) proceeded to discount, minimize, and ignore my concerns while bragging how GREAT their bank is!  (I thought to myself:  "My God!  This is like talking to a Narcissist except this is a financial institution behaving like a Narcissist!!!   :shock:)

I interrupted the bank rep and stated, firmly, that I KNOW WHAT FEES THEY HIT ME WITH, that the debit card fee was the FINAL STRAW for me and that he is completely missing the point about WHY I'm pulling my money out of their financial institution.  The last statement I said was:  "The most important thing you all should consider is the trust of the customer.  Once you violate that trust, you DON'T GET IT BACK!  YOU VIOLATED MY TRUST AND I AM GONE AFTER NEARLY FIFTY YEARS OF DEALING WITH Y'ALL!"

They stated that they were "sorry to lose me".  Yeah.....Right!   :P 

Too little, too late!

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« Reply #2871 on: November 06, 2011, 06:37:58 AM »
In the first letter, it sounds as if the letter writer is being punished for setting boundaries IN HER OWN HOME!!!!!

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« Reply #2872 on: November 06, 2011, 09:52:39 AM »
This father's head must be up his A$$!!!  If any predator approached my little child like that, I'd KILL HIM!!!!!   :twisted:


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« Reply #2873 on: November 06, 2011, 05:21:41 PM »
I think the mother's head also has a major problem. Assuming that this letter is for real, what the hell is this woman doing writing to a problem page? Why isn't she at the police station reporting the jerk? And why does she say "What do you think we should do?" - can't she act alone without hubby's say-so?

Give me strength. I think the reply is too soft.

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« Reply #2874 on: November 06, 2011, 05:50:58 PM »
I think the mother's head also has a major problem. Assuming that this letter is for real, what the hell is this woman doing writing to a problem page? Why isn't she at the police station reporting the jerk? And why does she say "What do you think we should do?" - can't she act alone without hubby's say-so?

Give me strength. I think the reply is too soft.

The reply is WAY TOO SOFT!!!!  Where is the Common Sense?!?!?!?

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« Reply #2875 on: November 06, 2011, 06:35:33 PM »
I don't know Bones. It's not very common, that's for sure.

On the other hand, I can't quickly imagine how paedophile groups, or networks, or 'rings' ever got into existence. Just quickly letting the idea cross my mind, I can't access a mindset that says: this is what I do and I'm going to link up with like-minded people so we can indulge our very evil predilection even more. And protect the group etc.

And that's because I don't know enough. I'm ignorant of the facts. I can't 'blame' people for being ignorant. And that reply to that letter shows ignorance. Or fear of paedophiles? I don't get it, but there is something going on behind the reply?

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« Reply #2876 on: November 06, 2011, 08:30:28 PM »
I don't know Bones. It's not very common, that's for sure.

On the other hand, I can't quickly imagine how paedophile groups, or networks, or 'rings' ever got into existence. Just quickly letting the idea cross my mind, I can't access a mindset that says: this is what I do and I'm going to link up with like-minded people so we can indulge our very evil predilection even more. And protect the group etc.

And that's because I don't know enough. I'm ignorant of the facts. I can't 'blame' people for being ignorant. And that reply to that letter shows ignorance. Or fear of paedophiles? I don't get it, but there is something going on behind the reply?

I don't get it either.   :?

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« Reply #2877 on: November 06, 2011, 09:43:58 PM »
I totally agree the mother should report it to the police, family feelings be damned.

Just what does she think has likely been happening to the cousin?

People need to protect ALL kids, not just their own.

Horrible story. "Huffing and puffing" my ass.

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« Reply #2878 on: November 07, 2011, 05:55:16 AM »
I totally agree the mother should report it to the police, family feelings be damned.

Just what does she think has likely been happening to the cousin?

People need to protect ALL kids, not just their own.

Horrible story. "Huffing and puffing" my ass.

Hops

I agree!!

I was FURIOUS when I read the description of the "huffing and puffing" KNOWING what he was doing in front of a child!  If I were that mother, I would have ripped off that body part, with my bare hands, and rammed it down his throat for doing that to my kid!  Guaranteed he would NEVER do that to another child again!   :twisted:
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« Reply #2879 on: November 07, 2011, 05:59:13 AM »
The wife described in the first letter has neither maternal instincts nor a heart!  GEEZ!!!!


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