Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1304067 times)

BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3060 on: January 06, 2012, 07:04:47 AM »
Kind of reminds me of a skit I saw on TV once, many moons ago, (was it SNL?), where this guy was drinking milk, started laughing, and had it coming out his nose!  I wasn't sure whether to laugh at that or be grossed out!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3061 on: January 07, 2012, 07:42:49 AM »
The Nutty, Insecure, Wedding-Goer sounds just like an N!!!!!!

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/nutty-insecure-wedding-goer.html

Not sure which is worse, this Nutty N or the NWomb-Donor who attempted to disrupt the NGCB's wedding festivities by trying to force all the guests to feel sorry for HER because NGCB DARED to REFUSE to dump his bride and come back home to his MOMMY!!!  Sheesh!!!!   :roll:
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3062 on: January 08, 2012, 08:45:58 AM »
Hmmm. Makes me think that right along with the deficit in feeling empathy... most Ns don't feel embarrassment nor shame at their "antics".
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« Reply #3063 on: January 08, 2012, 08:48:01 AM »
Hmmm. Makes me think that right along with the deficit in feeling empathy... most Ns don't feel embarrassment nor shame at their "antics".

That is so true!!!!  I think the reason that N's don't feel any embarrassment nor shame at their "antics" is because they believe they are "THE STAR".

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« Reply #3064 on: January 09, 2012, 07:21:38 AM »
Going to the dentist this morning.  I'm hoping there are no more bone grafts.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3065 on: January 09, 2012, 09:03:27 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3066 on: January 10, 2012, 06:35:27 AM »
Discovered that the book, that I mentioned in my previous posting, is at the local library.  I've place a request for it and now I need to wait and see how long the request process will take.  The library has only one copy and I have no way of knowing if anyone else has submitted a request before I did.  I just have to wait and see.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3067 on: January 10, 2012, 08:10:01 AM »
Excellent, Bones!
I had that thought yesterday, hoping you'd check the library, even request an inter-library loan if it's not at your local branch.

Resourceful YOU, bravo! :)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3068 on: January 10, 2012, 08:40:35 AM »
Excellent, Bones!
I had that thought yesterday, hoping you'd check the library, even request an inter-library loan if it's not at your local branch.

Resourceful YOU, bravo! :)

Hops

Thanks, Hops.
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« Reply #3069 on: January 10, 2012, 10:44:09 AM »
Hey Bones - do you know of any online sources for definitions of the range of AS?

I'm pretty sure this runs in my family - one of my daughters and possibly her son; my bro and perhaps his son... for all I know, my mom too... BUT, as I read the first few pages of the book you're talking about... I also could recognize a few things about me, as well.

I don't think I'm aspie though... but it's a bit spooky about some of things that are described.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3070 on: January 10, 2012, 11:17:33 AM »
Hey Bones - do you know of any online sources for definitions of the range of AS?

I'm pretty sure this runs in my family - one of my daughters and possibly her son; my bro and perhaps his son... for all I know, my mom too... BUT, as I read the first few pages of the book you're talking about... I also could recognize a few things about me, as well.

I don't think I'm aspie though... but it's a bit spooky about some of things that are described.

I'll have to search the Internet to look for online sources regarding Aspergers Syndrome.  From personal experience, I've learned that when you've met one Aspie, you've met ONE Aspie.  The way the brain is wired is different in each individual.  I've met some Aspies that one would never know until that person chose to disclose the diagnosis and I've met others on the other end of the Spectrum who don't talk at all.  One person reacted to meeting me by crying hysterically on sight.  Knowing she was also on the Spectrum, I responded by whispering, "It's OK.  I understand" repeatedly and she eventually was able to calm down from her meltdown.  I came to realize that anyone speaking in a normal tone of voice became sensory overload for her.

I'll see what I can find for you.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3071 on: January 10, 2012, 11:41:22 AM »
Thanks, Bones!

In your spare time, though, OK? You don't have to do anything special for me.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3072 on: January 10, 2012, 11:42:32 AM »
Thanks, Bones!

In your spare time, though, OK? You don't have to do anything special for me.

Sure thing!   :)
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« Reply #3073 on: January 10, 2012, 11:45:02 AM »
Here's one piece of information that I've found regarding Asperger's in adults:

http://www.asperger-advice.com/asperger-symptoms-in-adults.html

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« Reply #3074 on: January 10, 2012, 11:58:38 AM »
Here's another link about Asperger's:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome
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