The friend, who just lost her brother over the weekend, is a fellow member of the local club I belong to....the same club that met this past Saturday and dealt with an N who demanded we GIVE him a wheelchair!
Since the death announcement, several of us have been responding to her with condolences and offers of what we can do to help her get through this...offering her a shoulder to cry on, whatever she needs for emotional support during this time, trying to be the kind of friend she needs. Do you know what I mean?
Not so the N! In typical N-fashion, he sends an e-mail to the entire group which basically said: "Let ME talk about ME and let ME TELL YOU how YOU SHOULD FEEL! ME!! ME!! ME!!". I wanted to tell him to shut the hell up but didn't want to start a flame-war! Am I the only one who is tempted to bitch-slap this N-idiot?!?
It's so difficult to deal with people like this Bonesie, is he quite a prominent member of your group? I find people like this so tiring, I hope you're okay, are you sleeping any better yet? xx
Thanks, ((((((((((Tupp))))))))))))).
Some days I sleep well and other days I don't. It's frustrating at times.
As for the N, he's the president of our club (unfortunately). We try to keep him corralled as much as possible but we are not always successful.
