You are so helpful to me - so brave and real.
Please tell me where your quote came from. I love it, want to use it, but want to credit it also.
I remember the first time I realized my definition of self was a "lie". It was so powerful and I decided to step out of the lie and start being the real me, a self
I had defined, not others. For the first time, I felt naked, totally new, almost without skin, but also very alone. It was a shock to me to realize I had always been alone with only the company of the lies to rely on. It was a terrible, vulnerable feeling, with no protection - but at the same time it was a FOG (f***** opportunity for growth). For the first time I felt I could see actual light in my life. May it be that way for you, too.
It has been awhile since that light went on. Now I find that my shame was also built on lies and I must work to dismantle them again. Thankfully this time part of that work is already done. And, thankfully, I have y'all.
towrite
P.S. In my part of the world we say "nekkid".
