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Does the N ever receive HER just deserts?

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sidney:
Actually I'm not a disrupter. I had something valid to say. Like all of you I have spent a lifetime being invalididated. But one thing I have learned is that getting healthier means being able to take constructive input.

I didn't say you "liked" doling out s**t. Only that you have the power to choose not to do it. And that in not doing it, you would have to require more of yourself.

You also have the power to start a new thread. Just a suggestion.

Sid

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: sidney ---You also have the power to start a new thread. Just a suggestion.
--- End quote ---


Why don't you start one, if this tangent disturbs you?

bunny

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: sidney ---Actually I'm not a disrupter. I had something valid to say. Like all of you I have spent a lifetime being invalididated. But one thing I have learned is that getting healthier means being able to take constructive input.
--- End quote ---


My impression here is, "You should be able to 'take' constructive criticism (aka 'input') from me." I don't believe this stance is helpful. You'd need a lot more trust and credibility to give this advice. One person's "constructive input" is not another person's idea of constructive input. And she doesn't have to take anything from anyone. So while your philosophy may be sound, your way of saying it seems too critical.

bunny

sidney:
I am gonna move on. I don't want to give this person any more Nsupply. I think you should read between the lines of the posts. Blaming people, doling out s**t. Maybe we should stop trying to convince her she isn't an N. We aren't therapists. My N blamed everyone but the fridge, complained ceaslessly and doled out a lot of s**t. I do hope clueless gets the help she wants/needs.

Thanks.

Sid

Anonymous:
Whoa guys!

Didn't mean to cause all this trouble... Sid has a point about requiring more from self. Am still working on it. As for ex, broke up cause I couldn't communicate, NOT cause of his friends. Hope no one too upset, didn't mean for things to get ugly.

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