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Does the N ever receive HER just deserts?

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Violet:
Joining this late in the game...

I've never know anyone who was as miserable as my N father in-law.  Most normal people seek to get as far away from an N as is humanly possible as quickly as possible because the N causes them pain.  The one thing they are generous with is the pain. They like to spread it around.

Now, imagine: you can never get away from that. The N, that is you, is always there 24/7. How miserable would you be?!  He/she makes himself or herself as miserable as they make us and they can never get away! Ever!

Now that's hell.

But I won't be crying any tears for them because it's not that they CAN'T get away, it's that they DON"T WANT TO.  NPD is an Axis II disorder. It is not, like schizophrenia, an Axis I disorder. Axis II sufferers have a lot more control over their illnesses.  Some researchers have discounted genetics as a predicting factor entirely and say that Axis II folks have total control over their behaviors.  

From what I've read and learned, most N's can control their behavior, but they choose not to. They usually demonstrate this control when they want to impress someone or are faced with huge consequences. On this little piece of information alone, I am convinced that Ns are in total control of their actions.  As such, I am sorry that the N is miserable, but they made that bed of misery.

P.S. Way to go on freeing yourself from that soul-sucking vampire!

shixie:
Surviver, CONRATULATIONS!  Absolutely, maintain zero contact and get out of Dodge.  I'm proud of you.

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