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a quick question from someone who is still new to all this!

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Karin:
I've been trying to identify what it is about this thread that disturbs me so much.
I've come to the conclusion that Lissie was not listened to and words were put in her mouth.

I'm outta here, thanks Dr G and to all those who actually do listen, because only then is a response valid.
Karin.

Portia:
Hey Karin,  :) thanks for saying what you have above.

I'm slightly bothered by Liss's two threads because of her younger age. The experiences must be a lot to take in at 17. Too much I would imagine.

But I'm unhappy that you are disturbed as you say above. This is about you. You don't have to leave. You can take your space here, talk about it. All voices have their place here. Whether they are 'listening' voices, advising from experience, shouting, whatever. I would hate to think that anyone felt they were silenced, I imagine everyone here feels at least similar about that?...gosh Karin, please don't feel you have to go, you have a place here, we all do...don't we???

Yuki:
I feel badly about how this has turned out. I'm staring at my screen, not knowing what to say. I don't even know if Karin felt that I did something wrong. I'm not sure what, specifically, she was refering to.

I think we're all here to learn and grow. We're all in the middle of a learning process. It's not always going to go smoothly... but we can talk about it and learn from it.

Everyone has a voice here. All of our voices are valid.

Portia:
Yuki, want a hug? (((((Yuki)))))
Karin too (((((Karin)))))

Yuki, I don't know what Karin means exactly. But I'm not going to read all the posts and put my interpretation on it because that still won't tell me what Karin thinks!

I just reacted to Karin being disturbed. I hope you come back Karin and talk about it. You've a great voice here. :D

Yuki, you've got a great voice too. :D

And I talk far too much.  :D  :arrow:

bunny:

--- Quote from: Karin ---I've been trying to identify what it is about this thread that disturbs me so much.
I've come to the conclusion that Lissie was not listened to and words were put in her mouth.

I'm outta here, thanks Dr G and to all those who actually do listen, because only then is a response valid.
Karin.
--- End quote ---


Hm. I think she was listened to very closely. Unfortunately some of the feedback wasn't what she was prepared for. When posting on the internet, this happens because one asks for feedback and can't control what the feedback is. Hopefully there's a silver lining and what happened will lead her to some therapist that will help her through her family situation.

bunny

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