Voicelessness and Emotional Survival > What Helps?
Sarcasm
Hermes:
http://www.phlux.net/bboard/message-5101.html
Hermes:
Yes, Leah. And, I put up that link because I did not like a "one-liner" I saw today on a particular thread.
Hermes
Hermes:
I agree Leah. Sarcasm has nothing to do with wit, or even irony.
All the best
Hermes
Certain Hope:
Hermes,
Absolutely fantastic link... thank you!
After reading in its entirety, I created a favorites folder for this one... cuz no doubt will want to access it again... wow, I could not possibly agree more. I especially appreciated the author's response to the first reply received... about the user of sarcasm throwing up hands and acting all innocent-like, as though his sarcasm is purely a frustration response.
There is absolutely nothing pure about sarcasm. It stinks, imo.
What really gets me is the way that those who wield sarcasm like a weapon seem to think they're taking the high road.. like they're legends in their own minds or something. To me, it's as low and cowardly as a person can get to resort to this non-means of non-communication.
Thanks again!
Carolyn
Bella_French:
Sadly, I am `good at' sarcasm, in the sense that has been regarded as entertaining by friends and partners. But I don't find it appropriate to use it unless I am truly backed into a corner by someone very cruel and stupid. Every now and again it comes out, like a sword, and I am grateful for the defense it offers.
I see it more as a `non-violent' form of punching someone in the nose, who really, really deserves it.
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