I can honestly say that this board was a great outlet to me when I first came to stay with my totally Nmother eldercaring her. It really helped me keep my sanity at a time when I needed some help. I hadn't seen her but one time in over 20 years, and getting stuck here was difficult as all getout as she was just so mean as she could be (and, of course, the usual N issues with selfishness and high impulsivity on her part). But I adjusted slowly, and she calmed down the more feeble she became; so, it's pretty mellow right now.
And, yeah...sometimes this board attracts fruits and nuts, but, overall, the people here are great people. They really bend over backwards trying to support and help.
Now I just pop back in from time to time.