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Guest5:
Pandora,
I have to agree Onyx, people in general do not behave well while in the midst of a divorce. You are in a different space than your STBX and that's why you can not see things in the same light. Men are taught to be agressors and women are taught to be nice and submissive, is it any wonder we don't always see eye to eye?  :?: I believe that I read most of your posts and I feel your pain. Being lied to by one's spouse is devastating but I believe most people rush into divorce while their emotions are still on a rollercoaster.

Betrayal of any kind takes a while to get over, believe I know. When I found out about the OW, I rushed out and got a divorce. Now 2 years later, I regret my actions and I do not want you to end up like me. Everyone can change if given a chance. No one is perfect. As Dr. Phil says you are ready for a divorce until you are at peace. If you feel anger, hatred, frustration or any negative feelings towards your STBX then maybe you should take a step back. Nothing in life is ever final.    

My advice to everyone is to take your time and pray on any major decisions you have to make concerning marriage. Marriage is a covenant.
Good luck.

Anonymous:
Hi Pandora,

I have just finished reading about your situation and I want to say that I am sorry that you are going through this.  Please stay strong and take care of yourself.

Guest5-

Yes, you are absolutely right, marriage is a covenant (n. a formal agreement, a contract) and Pandora's husband broke that agreement.  His choice.

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