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Non N's appearing as N's ... i.e. the craziness of others.

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Anonymous:
Newguest,

It is common for a non-N to become hysterical around N's. This is what makes the non-N look crazy and gives the N's something to criticize.

Therefore my feedback is to stop allowing them to make you hysterical. I wouldn't bother fighting against them, it's futile. They aren't going to learn. What I do is avoid a lot, and just let them know that I don't agree with them. I also behave firmly so they learn not to mess with me.

bunny

Newguest:
Thank you for your responses.  

I am sad about the need to remove and distance myself from family members.  I feel like it is the only way to start my marriage off on the right foot.  Doesn't make it any less painful.  

Thanks for listening.

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