Pms Rant

[Overcomer]

My mom is helping my d and her new h with a down payment on a house.  My m is loaded and yet my kids were in day care while I busted my butt to make does meet.  Well I just realized that my m have my cousin more one than my d because he told her they wanted his wife to be a stay at home mom.  My mom can set boundaries with my d but not my cousin so my d will have to work to make does meet but my cousin and his former druggie wife are enabled.  IT JUST Pisses ME OFF!  MY M JUST DOES NOT THINK!

[Ami]

The NM is always messing with you, it seems. I am sorry ,Kelly. It seems to work that way with them--bleh.  Love   Ami

[Overcomer]

This is not the first time my mom has blessed those who do not deserve it over me or my brother and our family.  She chose an ex over my well being and she chose my ex H over my bro and his family.  My cousin makes no effort to be there for anyone but expects us to be there for him.  He never answers his phone or returns phone calls.  He graces us with his presence rarely.  If my aunt would not have hinted my D was getting married they would not have shown at the engagement party.

[Ami]

My NM chose to support my abusive H over me and my sons. I don't know WHY they do it, but it is some deep unconscious(??) motivation to keep telling is we are "worthless", I think.                                Ami

[Overcomer]

It is a mystery.  No one can understand why she synops in to help people other than her family.  I think she has a hero complex.  If someone considers her their hero it makes her feel good about herself.  I rebelled as a kid and part of me thinks she is still punishing me for things I did as a young person plus now she punishes me for not agreeing with her.  Right now I am cleaning up her mess.