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When people say crap like the first two responses on this thread to people in pain speaking up,it's sick. When people say platitudes like it's up to you to choose not to feel the way you feel ect.. it's not help.It has nothing to do with listening to thier voice say anymore..It's about controlling by putting it all on the speaker that they alone are the source of all thier own suffering.THis is new age bullshit pull yourself up by your bootstraps crap.Sometimes that can sentiment can apply to a situation sometimes it does not. You have to be willing to LISTEN to someone before you tell them advice,and if they don't want it,get over yourself....A person wants someone else uses advice or insult to tell someone else to not use thier voice to express thier own pain they are a narcissist ,emotionally immature,self absorbed know it all,or emotionally overwhemed..
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I completely agree with you Feline. I commend your good sense. HUGC and Pheonixs responses were total crap.
Julie
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Anonymous:
Here Here, Julie and Feline.
B
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: phoenix ---One word: DUPLICITY
How BIG does the fire breathing dragon have to get for others to see? How could they not? Why would they not?
Loving? Positive? Helpful? Emphathetic?
H.U.G.&C.
I keep getting closer to the picture and am horrified at seeing the same as what you are suggesting... I have said no, can't be, but with you voicing the same, I am thinking it is so. Especially as time has passed and so much of the nature of the two is blending into one. I've had further reason to believe, as well. But it goes back some months. Even so , the hostility coming from that arena is - well, how could anyone not see it? Why do others jump on the bandwagon and join the circus, thinking this behaviour must be all right? Are they willingly blinded by a desperate need to not be targeted? To so dearly want to see this as a safe haven (which it is if you can dedicate yourself to kindness, and disengage from the hostile game playing.) This is real life , here: it doesn't stop for weary travelers. The only safe haven is inside yourself. What you can find here is others who can tell you how they are going about achieving that. Foremost, listen to yourself, even if that voice is still small. You know ultimately what you believe. The best protection is to look at things head on. Ask yourself. How do I want to treat others? How do I want to be treated? This reminds me of so many times in my life when faced with having to stand alone, say no , as others have followed the Pied Piper down the Primrose.
Appeasement: Saying, "Such a nice pretty, kitty" , before the Lion eats you.
Phoenix
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Anonymous:
--- Quote from: HUG&C ---I read the ramble thread and didn't gain any new understanding from it.
Shame child- cryin' shame-- How long ya been round these here parts- girlie?
Otherwise, it just seems like a vicious attack on someone that we all trust and enjoy.
Portia says-re. sjkravill-- I was trying to expose her for the shallow, attention-seeking no-intention of healing person that she turned out to be-
Uh...just whatca call that dearie--? I calls it projection, but to the target it was unprovoked. Random, inaccurate--attacking--unacceptable.
verbal & emotional violence.
When it comes to P spew, I must be readin' the book and you must be seein' the movie or somethin', 'cause I can't get my head around the P your explanin'
I'm with ya all the way home phoenix- though my word is MULTIPLICITY. How is it that people ain't seein' the freakin' obvious???????? :!: Are folk really that--- do I have some kind of freakin' gift of enlightenment or somethin?????? Morely just blessed with the good old rare gift of common sense I reckon-- shucks---
No--it don't matter none if so & so is sick and takes on 20 demonic identities, but how they use 'em does-- 20 demons or 20 saints? All I've seen around the P that ain't sweet, is destruction---don't quite know what yer referring to as else... Maybe caught the main P character on a day where she were gettin' all attention & praise she craves' That'll bring on the gravey to yer plate quite thick...
World of shame ya can't see the light my sweet... gods pure truth-- i ain't the one to be wary of--
I hear the masses callin' "here kitty kitty..." and when P burps, were gonna be mourning another...
Portia 'aint no glam car--- she's a train---wreck
If y'all can't see that by now, please, please, please--step right up-- I got a heck of a business deal for ya.....
8) $$$$$$$$$
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Anonymous:
--- Quote from: HoldingUpGarlic&Cross! ---Portia--quit talkin' to yerself & take yer meds...
And by the way..... ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
You--penning that????!!!! I'm exasperated--something I haven't felt in years.
You my dear... YOU are The Last Comic Standing............
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