Author Topic: Should I be angry, Dr. G?  (Read 7635 times)

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Re: Should I be angry, Dr. G?
« Reply #45 on: April 23, 2008, 11:57:01 PM »
Bean:  Everything you said is exactly as I see it.  She probably ran to the t to get him to validate her feelings towards me by giving her some "diagnosis."  She has been known to railroad people into inpatient counseling so she has a hand in "fixing" them.  If I do not watch out I will be posting after a month long stay at some psych ward!!!

But I do the same thing.  I am constantly trying to find someone - ANYONE - to validate me and my negative feelings towards my mom.  That is why it is so reassuring when our bookkeeper says "you are the only sane one around here."  THERE - somebody said it - it is NOT me - it is her.  So she runs to the t and says to herself, "you see?  I am not doing anything wrong here - my d has borderline personality disorder so she is sick and I cannot possibly hand over the reigns to her....."

But this time it backfired.  Her lack of taking responsibility is finally coming back to bite her.  Not only will I leave but the bookkeeper said even without a job to go to, she is gone too.  And then a couple of our people will leave and we have lost several to the store that is being opened by a man my mom let go.  He has been plotting his revenge for 8 years.  This is all happening simultaneously.

I will not be vindictive.  She will reap what she has sown.  NOw she is stuck.  I hope she sells so my aunt will have to fend for herself!!
Kelly

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Re: Should I be angry, Dr. G?
« Reply #46 on: April 26, 2008, 10:10:01 AM »
Do you know my mother Bean?  The bookkeeper IS the enemy.  She and I managed the store in 05 and the business made a profit for the first time.  Then we hired my aunt and the b k was "mean" to aunt and my mom demoted the b k.  If I leave bookkeeper leaves and mom is stuck!
Kelly

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