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Anonymous:

--- Quote from: Anonymous ---I'm sorry I just addressed one point in your post Pheonix.  :D I'm about to rectify that.  :D
 
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If people feel unsafe here, this may give them further cause.
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I don't feel safe or unsafe here. Safety doesn't come into it. But your comment 'this may give them further cause' seems so odd and abit liikem trying to make people paranoid to me. What are wanting to point out to 'people'? That this place is unsafe? That seems so odd. It's a cyber public place isn't it? I mean, I have no way of knowing if what you're saying is true or not unless the registered person you pm'd steps forward and confirms it. Will she/he do that. Then we can get to the bottom of this. otherwise it seems like you could just be trying to scare people off from pming? I said 'seem' please note, that's how it could see. Could the recipient of Pheonix's message step forward IN THEIR REGISTERED USER IDENTITY AND CONFIRM THAT THIS ACTUALLY TOOK PLACE. PLEASE   :D


--- Quote ---It seems that a few things I have said in a private pm, seems to leak out- can’t imagine how-
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Well back to what I've already said, it's gotta be 1 of the people you're pm'ing. Of course  :D . What's so hard to understand about that.


--- Quote ---Just yesterday I had this to say about a person here: She must be three hundred years old to have all those experiences!
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Tut tut tut. That's not very nice.  :D  Who were you talking about, by the way? hahahaha  :P ?


--- Quote ---And lo and behold my words seem to appear in a little story, a parable, right here. Coincidence? This is not the first time, and not with the same person. So one wonders?
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hahha Yes, and now it's not only 'ONE' wondering, but now it's 2 and 3 and 4 and more and even me.  :D


--- Quote ---Who is who? What is what?
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Yeah, I can see you saying you can't see what happened.  :?  That seems almost too niave of you! I know you're not dumb!  :D



--- Quote from: Somebody ---Good Morning!

I heard something I thought was rather nice on the radio this morning:

"You're not getting older, you just need re-potting".

What a wonderful thought, really.  Yes, we just need fresh soil, extra room to spread our roots, as we age.  So our roots can get thicker and reach down deeper, hold us steady, get the H2O we need.  That refreshment will likely liven us up and green up our leaves a bit.  It would help us be the most solid people we could be and grow a little, on our way out.

A person I spoke with yesterday used to work as a lumber-jack where the huge, massive, 6 foot diameter trees grow, on this continent (spelling?).  He was very interesting to speak with.  I had no idea that such trees still exhist on this piece of earth.  Trees such as those used by different tribes to carve, or burn out, into cannoes.  I asked him how long it would take for a tree to get that big?  "Oh, probably 2, maybe 300 years", he said.Wow!!! That's a long time.  Think of the length and strength of those roots!!  Imagine standing beside such a tree.  How very awesome that must be!  "How much would it cost to buy such a tree?".  He couldn't say but it would be a lot of money.  Yes, such a tree is of great value.  Such a shame that we are not allowing the trees we now plant to grow to such a size.  This just isn't feasible to supply society's lumber needs.

Still, the idea of re-potting ourselves as we age, sounds like a step in the right direction.

Enjoy your day people.
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--- Quote ---Think this is pure imaginings?
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No!  :D


--- Quote ---Not me
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Me either.


--- Quote ---And you know what?
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What?


--- Quote ---I wrote those words thinking they may just reappear somewhere.
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So you already were suspecting that the person/s you were pming have other identities, and you were testing your theory. Very clever.  :D


--- Quote ---Because this has happened before.
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Well, then you were definitely right.


--- Quote ---As I said, this is not the first time.
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yes, that's right, you did.


--- Quote ---Just something to think about.
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Yep, I sure am thinking about it!  :roll:   And my very humble suggestion to you Pheonix. No offence intended, but his is your problem if it really happened. I' like it confirmed by the other registered user, actually, if you don't mind.

My other suggestion to you is to not worry too much about it too much.  :D  

If you're talking about people in a not very nice way in your pm's, you're placing an awful lot of trust in the people you're talking too.

I mean, you say this place is unsafe, and I agree after reading how you were discrediting someone to someone else.

And then  :D , it seems to me that you're complianing after putting yourself in that type of vulnerable position with someone you don't really know.

That's about it for me at the moment, but I thought your topic was so interesting and weird and had so many issues involved. Trust/privacy/gossipping/ discrediting, I really felt it deserved my full attention. I am responsible for your own safety here, no-one else. So I guess I gotta be happy for my words to be repeated elsewhere.

By the way, I wouldn't say I'd be silly enough to get into pming with poeple here and not expect something like you've suggested happened to not happen at some time. Especially if I was saying nasty things.  :D Never mind, it's good lesson, isn't it?  :D

take care

CG
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Hi Pheonix  :D , CG  :D  again I'm back  :D . Another thought I wanted to add to my thoughts above. hahaha   :D  I'm really working hard for you herre, on trying to help you solve this one Pheonix. Because if it really did happen, like you say hacking and untrustworthy people upstairs maybe????  then it is too   :shock:  weird.

This is my other idea  :idea:

Maybe I was too qquick in assuming it was your mate you were gossiping to  :D .

Maybe it wasn't the the person you pm'd your (not so nice  :oops: ) comment to at all  :D  .

But maybe, just maybe they are also caught up in their own little 'seperate from you 'pm'ing circle that talks about people too!  :D  

In which case, maybe your mate quoted  your comment to one of their pm mates, and  and therr you have it! Problem solved.  :D There is your leak.  :D

But, and can I let out big belly laugh here, hahahahaha, to think that anyone could be bthered to hack into any pm's here, hahahha, and specifically, yours!!!!! Sorry Phoenix, it is funny, but that is a little bit too off the planet and seems a bit grandiose and paranoid don't ya think?  :D . Just 'seems' mind you, is all I said.

But seeing as I assume you don't have the code for space shuttle launch locked in your pm box here  :D  hahah (joke), do you think your pm's are that influential/interesting/rivetting/desirable/enlightening???  :D  :D
 
Anyway, that wasn't meant to offend, but really!!! I mean that in the nicest and the most lighthearted possible way to help you see how silly it all is.

It's so simple. You gossiped and it did the gossip loop and came back and stared you in the face coming out of someone elses post.  :shock:  :D  

And now not only has it got you a wee bit paranoid, but your trying to share your paranoia around. Don't worry, it's okay, just learn. Like you said, it's all paer airoplanes. And I will add, learning.

CG

phoenix:
bye

Anonymous:
Hi Pheonix, yeah my posts put me to sleep too!  :D  :D  hahahaha

But I forgot to say just one more very wee thing! I forgot to ask this one eensy weensy liddle question?  :?:  :?:  :?:  :D  you said this

 
--- Quote from: phoenix ---"This is not the first time, and not with the same person. Who is who? What is what?"[/size]

My simple dumb question is this. "How do you 'know' it's not the same person :?:  :shock:  :idea:  :shock:  :idea:  :shock:  It could be. I was just wondering if that thought occurred to you? :D  

You seem so sure 'they' are different people. why? Anyhow, just curious, and this one has really perplexed and  puzzled me today. it is too weird. And I gotta say, this is no small issue you've raised.  :D  Hacking or :!:  hahahahhaha  :oops: I actually thought you may have been suggesting that thereis  a loon at the steering wheel in voiclessness's head office  :D  ? Hey, maybe we should ask Dr G if he has started any new staff recently?  :D  Nope.  Silly.  :D  I really don't believe for one minute it would come from there  :D . As you were Dr G.  :D  I've deemed you 'In the clear and free from suspicion.'  :D hahahah. There's a first.

(((((((((hugs Dr G))))))))))))))

But Pheonix, it's a serious question. How do you know they are not the are same people?

(((((((((Pheonix))))))))))
CG
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phoenix:
bye

Anonymous:
Hi Pheonix, I'm so sorry you think I'm needling and picking at you. I'm not.   :D

But you came into my life here, not the other way round. I was never even introduced to you and you've has just so very much derogatory stuff to say about me, a person you don't know at all.  :D  That seems so weird to me, why you've given me scuh a hard time. I still don't understand, because I never had a problem with you at all.  :D  

So I'd like to say, as gently as I can, I haven't been able to help but notice that you seem to be constantly drawing wrong conclusions and making false accusations about me,  :oops: and sometimes others, and I don't mean to be hurtful, but Pheonix,  :shock: you do regularly draw some very long bows!  :oops:  

This is place of learning, and I've noticed and been the recipient of you doing this often. So yes, I'm drawing your attention to it, NOW  :D ! HERE  :D ! as nicely as possible. I want you to stop talking badly about me on this board, please.

If you're emabarrassd by me asking you that, I'm sorry, but Hey sunshine,  :D but I feel you've kinda given me the right to ask and comment here.

I;'m saying it here, because you're doing it again to someone else here, and I know what it feels like, and how unrelenting you can be, when you're misfiring.

And also, and I say this with no malice or ill-intent, in my above posts, I was just trying to help you see the  :D  obvious, and point out maybe a more credible alternative to the unnerving conclusions that you seemed to have immediately jumped to. But as usual  :cry:  you've imputed the worst possible motives to me. I feel to tell you, it's your MO unfortuantely. And you've done that with me so often recently too, I can say that.

The point really is, that if there was a leak, it's not the boogey man or a mystery hacker or Dr G. It's just your friend, or a friend of friend. or a coincidence. No big conspiracy happening, I don't think. But when you have a conspiracy theory you really don't hold back, do you? It's really quite frequent and regular too. Sometimes it seems like you're trying to pretend to be the 'all-seeing eye'. You could relieve yourself of that impossible task here, because you're not.

And I repeat, because I've been just the same type of victim of this accusatory suspicious conspiratorial rumour-mongering side of you, that has caused me some (not much  :D  but some) sadness and grief, I really believe I have a right to comment here in this thread, especially when I see you doing again to someone else what you've tried to do to me.   :D  

It's also a part of my learning, and expressing myself in a polite but firm way and being kind. How am I doing?

And I surprised even myself  :D  , when I was kinda feeling sorry about you and your misplaced accusations, and the paranoia you seem to live with, and last but not least, your latest unfounded acusations. I am beginning to wonder if it ever ends with you? But anyhow  :(  , I'll leave that one with you.  :D

It can be a great place of healing and enocuragment if you quit trying to overrule and stop constantly straining at the speck in other's eyes here, and just go about working on your own healing and issues. But when people are constantly haranguing and harassing and putting me down on daily basis, they begin to interfere with my healing. And I haven't liked you doing. It's not your place or your job to do it here.

So can we all get on with being polite and maybe even nice to each other. Bringing offensive things out into the open, in spirit of warmth, which is what I'm trying to achieve here, and leave each other to get on with our own stuff, like healing one day at a time, and not keep creating phantom boogey men, that just don't exist, for everyone to begin to worry about and watch for. Please?  :D Anyone doing that just railroads and sidetracks people from the main game here, which is to get on with their own healing issues.  :(  

(((((((((Hugs Pheonix)))))))))

CG

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