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What is love? the unconditional kind!!

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PnkDragn:
Unconditional?  Whats that?  lol

If you figure out what this beast is please let me know.

I hope you find it.

PnkDragn3

PnkDragn:
On second thought I think I know the answer to that question.

Isnt unconditional love what Nkids feel for the Nfolk?

No matter how bad we are treated or punished or pummeled into the ground we still love our Nfolk.  Wouldnt that be unconditional?

PnkDragn

ch:
Yes, that's right!! we know how to give unconditional love to our Nparents, but since our judgment is so clouded and disturbed by the N experience, how can we attract real love, the unconditional kind of course, in our adult lives?

How can we avoid fake love and the relationships that will replay the same unhealthy patterns we have experienced?  We need to break the unhealthy pattern that is hardwired in our psyche.

I fear falling back into the same patterns and being an N-supplier in my romantic life.

Anonymous:
When we are happy within ourselves, within our lives and healthy within our hearts, we will attract people of the same state.
This will increase the chances of our relationship being what we truly want.

Unconditional love means love with no conditions attached, imo.
No requirements and nothing expected for it.

In order to love unconditionally, we must be able to forgive entirely.
To give unconditional love is a great challenge sometimes and one that we may not anticipate fully.  It is a decision we make, a choice.

To receive it, is the greatest gift imagined.

nassim:
I have a very good relationship with my wife and it is based on love, equality and not taking each other for granted. I loved my wife when we got married, but I love her more today than I did then. It has grown over the years with mutual trust, understanding, shared memories and letting each other know every day that we love one another. And I thinks it's very important to have similar values. I can't stress that enough.

People usually are so busy looking for some kind of high feeling or lustful feeling and that doesn't last. IMO it's important to know yourself well and take time to know another person before investing too much emotion or you're only burning daylight so to speak.

I don't beleive in unconditional love. I think in a man/woman relationship it is healthy to have conditions that are conducive to a good relationship. Without a few requirements, it's not much good. It's a bit like boundaries to me. There are times when the requirements might get stretched though. That's okay if you have a good foundation.

We also don't curse at each other or argue. We do disagree but seek compromise because we are both invested in making each other happy.

Nassim

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