Craziness/Gaslighting/la-la-la-la-Outer Limits

[Izzy_*now*]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Leah,

Why would you jump the gun like this???

I just wanted to clear this up after you posted

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww poop izzy------ now ya gone 'n dun it.

and now she'll unnerstan' whut the mixup  wuz.

heck oh heck  heck  I'm goin to tha gardun to eet worms

bye
bye

[Leah]

Every day, nit pick nit pick.

Sadly, please read above Izzy


I wish for "No Contact"  exactly the same as Gabben and any other.


Sorry, I have only ever been respectful to you.

But, kind words have been lacking from you to me.

Respectfully,

Leah.


This is closure now Izzy.   No Contact.   I have informed Dr Grossman.   As does everyone else on the board.   Sadly.


Edit:  The whole point being, that the matter was closed last night / earlier today.   This was all most unnecessary, as your post is no longer there, and only chaos and confusion would ensue.  Closure.

[teartracks]

Hi Iz,

Edit in:  Oh crap.  Everything I said is in quote.  Correcting.

I don't know what is happening, but there are crazy things, like deletions, changes, modifications, being done to suit someone's purpose but I cannot figure out whose and why!

I would be happy to answer any questions you have. 

This fuss between which parties, Leach, teartracks or PR

No, not PR.

teartracks

[Izzy_*now*]

hi teartracks
This quote from your NC

Here's the breach of No Contact rule by **** (cannot be mentioned)
 
Re: Obsession vs Self-Acceptance
« Reply #7 on: June 20, 2008, 03:26:31 PM »
 

... and then it finally got through my crazy, frenetic, can't see the forest for the trees head... the same thing that **** posted:
 

Quote from: PhoenixRising on June 20, 2008, 12:26:31 PM

What would cause any person to participate on a board where it is pretty certain that their dignity will be disgraced and dishonored and their character debased?

I'm not calling you to task on this PhoenixRising.  I don't think members should have to trace down and verify the source of what others say of quotes used on the board,  or keep up with NC requests, except their own. I just thought that I should say that **** lifted the  words used here from my post #1,  (page 8 today)  to bean's, Board Bunnies - What I think of PM's.  Edit in:  A fair question would be, well who are you calling to task?  It's ****.  A NC boundary breaker?  Note that the word intelligent was deleted from what I said.
 
Edit out: dandylife:  This will build you stronger and more ready for those who will try and stomp upon your boundaries in the future. Don't let them! [/size] tt

Okay! I didn't think PR. That was your quote assigned to PR, right?

I went back and forth and found threads missing and changes so was confused.

I opened up a tin of worms?

Iz

[Leah]

Izzy,

all you have done is to cleverly replace by name with *****


That posting is all about me, Leah.


NO CONTACT rules apply.


Leah


You don't need any clarification from Teartracks about a posting regarding Leah.


NO CONTACT  all round applies.

[Izzy_*now*]

Hi all
My post to teartracks is to explain to her my not understanding something between 2 people and who originated the post, teartracks or PhoenixRising.

[Leah]

The ONE person is LEAH  --  it was about me, hence, you have ALTERED their posting to insert 4 ****  to replace my name, LEAH

NO CONTACT ruling applies Izzy.


Dr Grossman's Board Rules applies to everyone here.


Izzy, you are creating the crazymaking with your choice of behavior, as evident.

[Izzy_*now*]

hi all,

Something interesting I discovered in the past two-three days. Interesting because I was always so shy and insecure, and unassertive.

I was hurt when I was asked to remove a post of mine, but I was Not hurt when two No Contacts have been requested of me, as in both cases I know I was on my right track and the others were not understanding what I had posted.

There is quite a difference: feeling that sense of 'the power of the truth'.

Best all
Izzy

[Leah]

Izzy,

I was the was who was  hurt by your mimicking ridiculing abusive posting, which is why I asked you to delete it

as per your own previous recommendation, to include informing Dr Grossman, of the abusive posting.


I am the one who has not received an apology, instead, a repeat of being hurt by your choice to re-create the hurt with this thread topic etc.

Which is why, "enough was enough"

and I felt I had no choice left, after having received several 'nit picking' postings from you for some time now.


Whereas, I have only ever shown you kind respect.


Sorry, Izzy, last night it was your choice of words and behavior in your posting to ridicule and humiliate me, that HURT me. 


NO CONTACT is the best thing for me to do for my emotional well being, with much sadness.

Leah.


I am NOT an object, I am a person.

[Ami]

You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth ,Leah. That is all. If people don't approve, you don't answer to them and it doesn't matter, really.    Ami

[sea storm]

I have been reading this labyrinthian, paranoid, blame game  for awhile now.  The hook gets sunk and then apologies are made, only to start again.  Will no one leave this to rest?

One thing i like about Voicelessness is when a person who is nasty posts and tries to get a rise out of people. No one replies.  I thought.... oh someone will be unable to resist giving the so and so  a tongue lashing .... but no ... there was no response.

For some reason people are taking these darts  to heart.  How about using the admonishion in the Four Agreements ie. Take nothing personally.  There is a lesson in all this.  This is a place for healing and there are frequent derailments into uber personal attacks. From now on I am ignoring them completely.  This is my last attempt at trying to restore peace and harmony.
It is too difficult without seeing the body language and knowing more about the individuals.  If anyone wants to carry on bickeringthen do it privately rather than trying to enlist members on the board to take sides. 

Sea storm

[Izzy_*now*]

OOPs sea storm

I ought to have locked the thread. It is all over and done with now and this was to fade into the dust, as long as it was all understood, and many posts were deleted...threads as well.

Any attack on me was done before the situation was  settled, but I responded with dignity, I hope.

Izzy