GS, as a quasi-irregular member of the forum, I've just found this thread. I, too, have a special needs child that sounds a lot like yours: ADHD and anxiety. I, too, have been through the "looking for support" journey and found the same things you have. It was so frustrating to be constantly second guessed and have my competence (!) questioned. Like you, I finally decided to stop trying to find support. I was tired of the endless suggestions about doctors, medications tried, diets, detoxification routines, etc. when all I really needed was someone to listen and validate that yes, it is exhausting raising a special needs child, and yes, there will be very bad days when I look back and wonder if I can actually raise this child.
I like your insight about competence. It fits for me, too, and gives me something valuable to think upon.
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