Overcomer, that kind of treatment would be hard for anyone to experience. But for though of us who were so deeply and cruelly abandoned emotionally by our mother's even as infants and for the rest of our lives, such kindness followed by abandonment touches and opens up that enormous soul wounding from our own experience.
My heart grieves with you just reading about your experience. It is bewildering and cruel but it had NOTHING to do with you. I know it doesn't feel that way but it is something about that woman and the organization. Not sure what and though it does NOT help to hear this, even though it seemed like a nice fit you ARE better off. Not better off being treated so poorly but better off not waltzing into that organization thinking it was a group of kind, compassionate people who were capable of valueing you and your talents. They aren't capable of that for some sad reason.