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Dawning:
Hi everyone.  I'd like to ask you all for any insights/similar experiences regarding today's email from nmom.  first, i got an email saying that she'll be online and that "maybe we could have a *lil* chat."  I didn't respond.  No chat.  I checked my emails again and there was a 2nd msg saying, "it seems you are out of pocket.  sorry i missed you.  maybe some other time."  

I checked the definition of out of pocket  http://www.hyperdictionary.com/dictionary/out+of+pocket and I got the furrowed brow look.  What on earth was she thinking or what hidden agenda is/was she trying to push by using that expression?   :?:  :roll:  

I really don't want this woman inside my head.  If she was reading this now, she would probably derive some pleasure in knowing that she got to me.   :evil:   I don't trust her intentions at all.  

Any insights greatly appreciated.

Anonymous:
I think your mother misused the expression. She probably meant "offline." In any case, I'd ignore it completely. Out of pocket generally means "having no money."

bunny

Moonflower:
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Ellie:
I would use 'Out of pocket" as unavailable or offline. Maybe your mom is trying to be computer literate, only to be found out that she really isn't. Instead of getting frustrated with her, let her be the brunt of the joke. Next time you email her, just say "offline mom, not out of pocket" and snicker.

Dawning:
Thank you bunny, Moonflower and Ellie.

Its a big help to know I can raise these seemingly small little things on the board too.   Your replies put my mind to rest.

Oftentimes, I have no clue as to why she says the things she does.  But I learned - subconsciously - as a child not to trust a damn thing that comes out of her mouth, especially when she wants something.

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