I know 2 similar stories: 1. Nice female Jewish physician married a Jewish guy (meaning instand bond with the religion) who came to Houston. He had no driver's license and no identification papers when she met him; and told her his entire family had been killed, so he had no relatives. One day he leaves her a note, takes all the money from the bank, takes the best car and leaves their daughter who is 2-1/2 with her. Bottom line: he was selling illegal IRA's (they had just come out), and our office building was loaded with FBI men going into his partner's office files. The guy was from the East somewhere and was just a plain old con man. Last I heard, she moved back in with her parents so her daughter had some stability. 2. My own niece makes something like $450K and is at the top of her field. Married to a guy who also has an MBA, but doesn't want to work in a "job." She has caught him not only cheating, but with a to-do list planning to abscond with all the monies in the bank in joint ownership. They divorce...and less than a year later she remarries him. Of course, he controls the money and is the boss at the home (when he's there) just like Clark Rockefeller.
Now, if you can tell me why women who are intelligent, educated, with professions that make above average incomes will be so desperate to have a man in their lives that they will tolerate--and totally tune-out--the reality of these guys...well, that is the $64,000 question. All 3 of these women are just average appearing ladies, but is their self-esteem so low that this is what they will accept? Guess so.
Maybe I've been single way too long, but I've heard and known so many situations like this I could scream. What is wrong with these women?
And to be the Devil's advocate here, in my opinion, these woman are stupid. I can see why Denner called her stupid. She was.
