Punished For Being A Separate Person

[Ales2]

The N punishes, demeans, rages,humiliates ,threatens  etc if you want to be separate with your OWN identity. Do you have any examples of this in your life?

yes, yes, yes and more YES!!! This is exactly the sabotage I was referring to Ami! I've had her say things to me to undermine me and my independence and insure I would FAIL, so I would NEED to come back to her.  UGHHHHHHH!

((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))

[Ami]

The N punishes, demeans, rages,humiliates ,threatens  etc if you want to be separate with your OWN identity. Do you have any examples of this in your life?

yes, yes, yes and more YES!!! This is exactly the sabotage I was referring to Ami! I've had her say things to me to undermine me and my independence and insure I would FAIL, so I would NEED to come back to her.  UGHHHHHHH!

((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))

Thank you (((((Ales))))
 It feels so good to be understood even though we are members of a sorority NO ONE would want to join( D's of NM's ).Thanks so much for your comments!                                                                 xxooo Ami

[cantors.counter]

I woke up today and I realized I AM a separate person. Since I went in to a shell in my teens, I never felt separate from my NM.                                                          Ami

(((((Ami)))))

How very cool. You ARE a separate person with your own likes and dislikes, opinions and desires. Welcome to the adventure of discovering Your Self.

[Ami]

I woke up today and I realized I AM a separate person. Since I went in to a shell in my teens, I never felt separate from my NM.                                                          Ami

(((((Ami)))))

How very cool. You ARE a separate person with your own likes and dislikes, opinions and desires. Welcome to the adventure of discovering Your Self.

Thank you Cantors.counter. It WAS a big moment. Thank you for understanding!!!                    xxooo  Ami

[nolongeraslave]

The N punishes, demeans, rages,humiliates ,threatens  etc if you want to be separate with your OWN identity. Do you have any examples of this in your life?

yes, yes, yes and more YES!!! This is exactly the sabotage I was referring to Ami! I've had her say things to me to undermine me and my independence and insure I would FAIL, so I would NEED to come back to her.  UGHHHHHHH!

((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))

Same.

[Ami]

((((((NLAS)))))      You are fortunate to learn about N at a young age. Perhaps my life would have been very different if I learned about N's when I was in college and life seemed to have so many possibilities. Do you feel it is very helpful for you to have learned about N's at a younger age ?            Ami

[nolongeraslave]

Thanks..I never looked at it that way, but it makes me more careful on who to marry, who to befriend and how to raise my future kids.

[Ami]

Thanks..I never looked at it that way, but it makes me more careful on who to marry, who to befriend and how to raise my future kids.

((((NLAS))))  When you meet a guy, tell us about him and we will give our stamp of approval!!          xxxoo  Ami