Right P! Okay. Seriously:
People being serious about their jobs, their choices, their habits, taking care of their bodies, their relationships - yeah I see a lot of that too. It's okay I guess if it works for them. I'm serious about things too: some of my habits are pretty sacrosanct to me, unless i change them. I'm serious about: cruelty, injustice, screwing the planet - I'm really intolerant of intelligent (average IQ, capable of logical thought, able to function well) people who allow themselves to behave like complete arseholes, who won't question themselves. I call them 'stupid'. But hey, I enjoy that particular intolerance. I do it for fun. I could give it up I guess. I'm so serious about a lot! But of course none of it is of any importance whatsoever.
Histrionic? That's a strong word. I don't think it means living one day at a time. But if you want a 'plan' and you want to do all that stuff that you see other people doing, then do it.
I wonder who you're makiing that 'lame excuse' to. I don't know what you mean by not honouring anything in your life. I mean, i don't get the word 'honouring'. You mean being grateful? You mean doing what you think might be 'expected' by some external source? This idea is somewhat outside of my experience I think. I've gone from survival to hmmm not caring very much. Edit: having, in my terms, already made myself quite 'safe'.