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Finding voicefulness......losing......finding.....practicing..
Meh:
--- Quote from: PhoenixRising on March 06, 2011, 09:03:17 AM ---........and from experience I can tell you the way you feel you're being treated really isn't personal. That in itself probably triggers some warning signals, huh?
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No, I didn't take it personally. I think my statement has been interpreted incorrectly.
Hopalong:
I'm sorry if I misunderstood, MB...
your feelings matter but they're weather, that's what I meant.
It's okay to be however you want to be.
And if you need to just vent, and not be prodded/pushed/prompted, I hear that!
love,
Hops
sKePTiKal:
Sorry bout that, Muffin!
I'll try to read closer... and engage brain before opening mouth!
My batting average this week, on replies, isn't so hot.
Edit:
What I mean by that is that I seem to be out of sync with a lot of people... and what I'm hearing/reading - what jumps out to me - seems to be world's apart and irrelevant to the person I'm trying to communicate with. Don't know why... hope it's not permanent!
Meh:
Thats ok,
It's certainly something I learned from my non-violent communication classes is how common it is that .... we (human beings) misunderstand each other, it's the limitations in the habitual ways people relate and talk with each other I guess.
Meh:
Just a random thought, not sure what it has to do with if anything with voicelessness.
I've noticed how important this to-do list thing is with me, I think it is some kind of reassurace that I am making progress in the "fix-me-up" project. I have a fix me upper attitude towards me every single day that is probably exhausting me.
Yes, when I get out of bed in the morning my mind is already ahead of myself working on this goal.
I was getting frustrated from a multitude of reasons. Some parts of the frustration are really rage beyond mild frustration.
I realized I got to the point where I am procrastinating on doing certain things or they are a stand still for now.
"Feeling Good" was a horrible self-help book I read one time long ago. I thought of the cognitive feedback exercise in it and superimposed my procrastination/standstill elements in my life on the feed back chart but doing it differently then the book.
Very good reasons for things being at stand still or procrastinations.
I decided that since there were good reasons for not doing certain things, I should stop pressure cookerizing myself about it for today. BECAUSE....there are always other things I can add to the freakin to-do list that don't have the same emotional consequences attached to them.
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