Fake mother comes back

[Overcomer]

Ok, so I have been telling you all that my mother and my relationship is going so well.  We have had such a good go of it.  Then it hit me.  I got a clean CT scan!!!  AFter battling the cancer for the last two years I went in and there is no sign of cancer (not holding my breath because this one is aggressive!!)

Anyway.  I am feeling well.  Now the OLD nmom is starting to come back!

Oh, I get it.  Be nice to your dying daughter who has cancer!!  Oh??  No cancer?  Now I can treat her like always.

Case in point.  My middle daughter had a baby.  She was at college and finally told us when she was six months along.  She is back with the father but he lives nine hours away.  He came in last night and my mom called me and said, "Joe is staying at my house, isn't he?"  I said no, he is staying here.  "I don't like that.  They should not be together until they get married."

Guilt.  Shame.  Manipulation. 

NO MOM.  JOE WANTS TO BE WITH HIS SON!!!  AND HIS GIRLFRIEND!  HE DOESN'T WANT TO STAY WITH HER 75 YEAR OLD GRANDCHILD SO IT LOOKS LEGIT!!!

[Overcomer]

75 YEAR OLD GRANDMOTHER!!

[Redhead Erin]

So, she thinks people won't guess the're sleeping together? 

[BonesMS]

"
NO MOM.  JOE WANTS TO BE WITH HIS SON!!!  AND HIS GIRLFRIEND!  HE DOESN'T WANT TO STAY WITH HER 75 YEAR OLD GRANDCHILD SO IT LOOKS LEGIT!!!"

"Child" sounds about right describing her and her attempts at controlling people!    

[mudpuppy]

Congratulations on the clean scan.

mud

[JustKathy]

Hi Kelly! I'm just so glad to hear about the clean scan. I wish I had some words of advice, but I know how overbearing and aggressive NMs become during the holidays. Try to focus on the positive if you can. You're cancer free, and that's a whole lot of positive!

Kathy

[BonesMS]

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