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Wail o' the week
lighter:
Oh, Hops, I'm smiling ear to ear for you: )
Just remember, and I'm a little late posting this, but.....
if a man trys to change your NO into a YES, he doesn't respect your boundaries or preferences.
Trying to change your mind is a red flag, and worth paying attention to.
lighter
Meh:
Pur....Puuurrrrrrrr.
Nice Hops! Very nice, I'm glad you had an enjoyable evening eating pasta with a sexy actor.....Very very good.
8)
Hopalong:
Wisdom welcomed, Lighter...thank you. No turning Nos into Yeses. nonononononono
((((((((Bones))))))) -- I am telepathically sending you his little brother.
xxoo
Hops
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Hopalong on January 06, 2012, 07:33:06 PM ---Wisdom welcomed, Lighter...thank you. No turning Nos into Yeses. nonononononono
((((((((Bones))))))) -- I am telepathically sending you his little brother.
xxoo
Hops
--- End quote ---
Thanks, Hops!
Bones
sKePTiKal:
--- Quote ---I just realized, PR, that what I'm describing is the lack of flirting.
I didn't want to flirt. I laughed and smiled and he did too, but it
was because we were enjoying a pretty animated discussion. He was
telling his life story though...and it wasn't a comical one. So laughs were
brief. But the storytelling, and the listening, were good. He talked a good
deal and I encouraged him to -- twice he mentioned that he didn't want
it to be all about him. That showed consciousness of not wanting to be a
monologuist (and from the other stuff he'd said he's clearly figured out that
he is, can be, was for a long time...self absorbed). I told enough of my story,
much as I wanted to.
--- End quote ---
Ahhhhhhhhh.... (she says, chewing on the pencil)....
You're absolutely right! Flirting might come later; might not... and it sounds like you enjoyed yourself and him. That's really all that's important, right? Talking... this is what we do in 1st grade... telling our life stories and what we've learned... at our age... getting to know if Mr. Interesting "does" as he "says he is"... and us, too.
Sweater sounds perfect!! I used to love oversized, chunky knit fishermen's sweaters. And you know, I'll bet you made a striking 1st impression.
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