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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Ales2 on November 06, 2012, 09:25:50 AM

Title: For discussion - Brooke Shields Mothers obituary
Post by: Ales2 on November 06, 2012, 09:25:50 AM
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/06/arts/teri-shields-brookes-mother-and-manager-dies-at-79.html


Anyone see the bothersome issues in this obituary of Teri Shields, Brooke Shields mother?




Title: Re: For discussion - Brooke Shields Mothers obituary
Post by: BonesMS on November 06, 2012, 09:56:43 AM
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/06/arts/teri-shields-brookes-mother-and-manager-dies-at-79.html


Anyone see the bothersome issues in this obituary of Teri Shields, Brooke Shields mother?



I see a LOT of RED FLAGS and indicators that Teri Shields could have been an N and an undercover predator.  What mother in their right mind would deliberately sexualize her own child for profit?!?!?!?!?!?
Title: Re: For discussion - Brooke Shields Mothers obituary
Post by: KayZee on November 06, 2012, 11:49:07 AM
I've always thought Teri was an engulfing N! 

Brooke's memoir Down Came the Rain is actually very good.  Her postpartum depression seemed really linked to voicelessness.  I remember Brooke writes something about how her mother's voice was still the loudest voice in her head back when she had her children.  I could totally relate to that; in the beginning, with my first kid, I lived with this maddening, constant worry that I was going to turn into the momster I remembered from my childhood.  I remember being filled with profound grief too; because I couldn't celebrate my magnificent new baby without simultaneously wondering how my own mother could look at me--so small, so dependent--and feel nothing but resentment. 

Anyway, poor Brooke.  I can totally relate to that very difficult, very smothering relationship she had with her NM.

Kay x