Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Meh on January 13, 2014, 12:42:04 AM
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nothing to do with Narcissism I don't think
just general question
do you try to force yourself out of your comfort zone?
typically I kind of have to be forced by some outside factor
maybe especially in winter time and without a car I feel like my zone is smaller, been lazy recently on my days off of work
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I'm trying to force myself, Green, but I do find it hard. At the minute, for example, I'm trying to talk to people that I don't usually (there are groups we go to where I tend to chat to the same people each week so I'm trying to chat to someone I don't usually). I find I'm very good at planning ways to break out of my comfort zone but much less good at actually doing it.
That said I do think a bit of hibernation in the winter is a good thing, lazy days off doing very little when it's cold outside are necessary for all of us, I think. And you've had such a tough time with your brother passing and then your whole family situation coming up again - a little bit of r and r is sometimes all we need or are capable of.
But perhaps the fact you are thinking about comfort zones means that there's a little spring around the corner and you're thinking about getting out a bit more? Or something similar? That could be a good sign? xx