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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Ales2 on August 19, 2014, 06:51:19 PM

Title: Narcissist Documentary
Post by: Ales2 on August 19, 2014, 06:51:19 PM
 :shock:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY_aUGb8zlA

Narcissist documentary from United Kingdom.

CAUTION - has many triggers for some people!

Includes Sam Vaknin - interesting and scary N subject.

Title: Re: Narcissist Documentary
Post by: river on August 20, 2014, 05:25:18 PM
Tried it, but it said the 'account had been closed'.  Wonder what that was about  :shock:
Title: Re: Narcissist Documentary
Post by: Ales2 on August 20, 2014, 07:41:43 PM
River - hi - try this one. I just checked it and it does play. Not sure what the other one did, but I suspect it was looped  to take out commercials and so it was booted from youtube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94Uie7UCdOU

Hope this one works for you.

As luck would have it, I went to an investing game meeting last night and had all sorts of ugly triggers. A guy who tried to mentor me, sat too close to me, made me very uncomfortable, nitpicked at my math, suggested I do the math calculations in my head to stay sharp, when in fact I was trying to focus on the game and the investments...anyway, I lost and was made an example by the coach and another player.  A very UNPLEASANT experience. Then this morning early, I had a nightmare about a similar scenario....it was a rough morning.

I am going back to the next game night only to confront that guy if he comes near me again. He was rude, way out of line and I should have said more/done more than just ignore him.  I don't know why I allowed him to affect me as much as he did, when I could have just said back off or get lost.

Title: Re: Narcissist Documentary
Post by: river on August 23, 2014, 08:05:30 PM
Thanks for the link, I finally watched it.  I enjoyed the Samvak with Lydia bit.   

I often have the problem you described here, wishing I'd said what needed to be said, and feeling affected about it afterwards.   
Title: Re: Narcissist Documentary
Post by: Ales2 on August 25, 2014, 02:32:15 PM
Thanks River, I appreciated the validation in your post.