Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Ales2 on August 19, 2014, 06:51:19 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY_aUGb8zlA
Narcissist documentary from United Kingdom.
CAUTION - has many triggers for some people!
Includes Sam Vaknin - interesting and scary N subject.
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Tried it, but it said the 'account had been closed'. Wonder what that was about :shock:
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River - hi - try this one. I just checked it and it does play. Not sure what the other one did, but I suspect it was looped to take out commercials and so it was booted from youtube.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94Uie7UCdOU
Hope this one works for you.
As luck would have it, I went to an investing game meeting last night and had all sorts of ugly triggers. A guy who tried to mentor me, sat too close to me, made me very uncomfortable, nitpicked at my math, suggested I do the math calculations in my head to stay sharp, when in fact I was trying to focus on the game and the investments...anyway, I lost and was made an example by the coach and another player. A very UNPLEASANT experience. Then this morning early, I had a nightmare about a similar scenario....it was a rough morning.
I am going back to the next game night only to confront that guy if he comes near me again. He was rude, way out of line and I should have said more/done more than just ignore him. I don't know why I allowed him to affect me as much as he did, when I could have just said back off or get lost.
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Thanks for the link, I finally watched it. I enjoyed the Samvak with Lydia bit.
I often have the problem you described here, wishing I'd said what needed to be said, and feeling affected about it afterwards.
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Thanks River, I appreciated the validation in your post.