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Title: Somatic Narcissists
Post by: Ariel on March 06, 2005, 10:29:50 AM

Hi everyone,
Is it true that a somatic narcissist would have sex with a woman without being sexually attracted to her? This is what I suspect could have done with me someone I wanted to date some time ago and ...it's not flattering at all.

Title: Somatic Narcissists
Post by: Anonymous on March 06, 2005, 11:03:49 AM

I don't know about a somatic narcissist; but people may have sex for reasons other than physical attraction. I guess we need more info.

bunny

Title: Been there done that!
Post by: Anonymous on March 06, 2005, 06:47:51 PM

Ok..I feel for you 100%. I just ended a relationship like that this week. It's been going on for over a year. His excuse for not being "that sexuallly interested in me" was that maybe, if I lost 20 lbs or so it would help...he NEVER had this problem with ANYONE else. Or if I dressed sexier....maybe a threesome? That would help too. Basically he had to get blinding drunk for any sexual exchange to take place.

And he loved! loved! telling me all the detailed sexual romps he had with prior girls. How FINE they were. How great their sex was! (where are they now?? hello!)

How he still has ALL these girls just fawning all over him a school...And I should be SO LUCKY he is still with me....
See..he's "waiting for me" to lose more weight and then we'll have the best sex ever...or not...he's "done" with me now and he says he shouldn't talk to me anymore cuz he doesn't want to hurt me by seeing him with another girl.....