Hi Genuine:
Even just looking at this in the simplest terms:
Your cousin did something very mean by sending that letter in time for your birthday. Shows how MUCH she cares for YOU.
Belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY GENUINE!!! HOPE IT WAS GOOD regardless!!
She was taking control of the situation....had all the power....said exactly what she wanted to.
Then........you.....took that power away.......took control away.....and hit her where it hurts most:
YOU....ignored her.....did not engage.......did not respond!
EVEN.......when she came trapsing to your home and tried to humiliate you into letting her in!!
YOU.......ignored her......did not engage........did not respond!
Way to go! Her efforts to control.....reign power over you with HER opinion.......were useless....
because YOU made them so.
Good for you! You didn't respond to her accusations, her lies, her manipulations, her twisted version of reality, her rudeness, her disrespect.....any of it!!
She might as well have written that letter to a brick wall......for all she knows.
And you (smart girl) came here, instead, for support!! You did the exact right thing, imo.
She isn't worth the ink you'd waste on and inch of paper or the breath of one word. She wouldn't compute or hear anyway. Her head looks tooooooo fullllllll of herrrrrrrrrrr version of things.......and she seems only interested in causing more chaos.
( 8) 8) 8) Way to go Genuine!!!!! She'll have to look elsewhere for that stuff eh?)
:D Sela
My Birthday hasn't arrived yet, its on the 12th
Woooooooooooops!! Sorry Genuine!!
Let me rephrase that, please:
Premature HAPPY BIRTHDAY Greetings, Genuine...enjoy, regardless!!
:D :D :D Sela