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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: October on December 09, 2005, 02:41:39 PM

Title: Dr Evil again
Post by: October on December 09, 2005, 02:41:39 PM

You may be as staggered as I was to hear that I received another letter from Dr Evil to my GP today, repeating the slanders of his former letter, which I complained about and received a half apology for; he denied everything I had no proof of, and half admitted stuff he could not deny.

I have sent a copy to the complaints department, and asked for a full apology, or else this complaint is going further.  This man is beyond a joke, and this is looking like harrassment.  I said in my letter that in my view his comments are untrue, slanderous and defamatory, and I asked for an unequivocal apology.

I had an appointment two weeks ago with a colleague of this man, which went well, and on the whole was very positive.  There is no mention of that; just that I am (again) called aggressive and verbally abusive.  This is totally unacceptable behaviour, and I am so upset by it all.

Title: Re: Dr Evil again
Post by: miss piggy on December 09, 2005, 04:02:02 PM

Hello October,

Glad you got my PM.  :)

You DO know that to an N it is "aggressive" to disagree with them and to have and pursue your own needs and that it is "verbally abusive" to state the truth, right?  Right!

You go girl.  Take the letter as another sign you are making administrative progress with this abomination in the medical field.  How helpful that he gave you more bullets for the complaint gun. 

Still hoping you get the assistance you were trying to get in the first place.  Hugs, MP

Title: Re: Dr Evil again
Post by: October on December 10, 2005, 12:31:00 PM

Many thanks, MP.  Too many batttles at present.  But thanks for being there. xxx

Title: Re: Dr Evil again
Post by: CeeMee on December 10, 2005, 03:54:06 PM

Hi October,

Hang in there.  That he is even writing again must mean that he is still trying to cover his
#$%.  When is the next appointment with the new doctor?  I hope this goes well again and you are able to get on with  the issues that  you want addressed in therapy.  This doctor evil is a side show at this point.  Don't let him distract you.  You've done your part now let things take their course.  Don't let the battle with him exhaust you.  If you choose not to continue pursuing this case, the cause wil continue.   The incident is part of his record now.

CeeMee

Title: Re: Dr Evil again
Post by: Sallying Forth on December 12, 2005, 01:31:39 PM

Glad you found another doc, October.

Sorry this former doc is being a pain in the ass, er um donkey. ;)


Have to agree with Miss Piggy and have even been on the receiving end of a N-t. She didn't want me to pursue my interests or even my own well-being. If it lined up with her ideals then fine. Going out on my own and leaving her behind triggered off her irrational behavior and attitude.