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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: penelope on August 05, 2006, 01:33:59 AM

Title: Hello Portia?
Post by: penelope on August 05, 2006, 01:33:59 AM

If you are out there I just wanted to say thanks for saying that boundaries are Internal.  I thought about that for 3 whole days!  You're right, and thanks for the reminder.   :)

And it was said with the gentlest of care, and greatest compassion, I felt.  (ahhhh)

hugs,
pb

Title: Re: Hello Portia?
Post by: portia guest on August 05, 2006, 07:54:15 AM

Hiya Pb

thanks for your message :D (you can PM me anytime too you know, as can anyone).

You thought about that for 3 days? I do that kinda thing too. Takes me a while to understand things sometimes (bashes head). I do like to understand though! I sometimes am wary of posting stuff in bold underlined coz it looks like I'm making a point too strongly.....but then again, I read what others post like that, so it works if you're skimming a post I guess. Boundaries eh. Yeah, took me ages. I think of it as: I'll tell that person that if they do that again, I'll do this. And if they do it, i do whatever I said I'd do (you've got to stick to your position). I can control what I do and I will! My boundaries.

Take care ((((((Pb))))))

Title: Re: Hello Portia?
Post by: penelope on August 05, 2006, 12:37:53 PM

k  i will PM you if I feel truly inspired again and want to say thanks.  Thank you for your encouragement P.  It means more to me than you know.