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Title: Get This!
Post by: pp on February 10, 2004, 05:10:57 AM

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Title: Get This!
Post by: Jacmac, as guest on February 10, 2004, 10:45:30 AM

Gosh, there's even N's out there in Australia?????
One thing I've learned about an N, they give new meaning to the words
tunnel vision.  No matter how you try to address your issue, your topic, your gripe, your interest, it almost always go back to how they feel, what they think and what they have been dealing with.  I always cry statute of limitations when dealing with them.  That is, if you didn't bring it up before I came to you with my problem, then obviously you were okay with it, and you don't get to bring it up now as a way to deflect what I'm saying.
And the sex???  It seems to get what they want and N will change history, become the most charming, kindess, loving man in the world, expecting you to some how forget what they've done.
You know what I told my N the other day?  I told him go downstairs and call you dog for supper, and when he comes to you, give him a nice hard kick in his face.  Then, I said, try calling him again for supper and see if he'll come to you.  I told him by asking me to be in your company, to have sex with you, to go out to dinner with you like you haven't violated me in every way possible is telling me that I'm dummer than a dog!!!!

Title: Get This!
Post by: Anonymous on February 10, 2004, 12:09:21 PM

Why did you bring this jerk lunch? If he forgets it, too bad. Then you can avoid these futile conversations.

bunny

Title: Yep, dumber than a dog.
Post by: pp on February 10, 2004, 12:43:47 PM

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Title: Get This!
Post by: Anonymous on February 10, 2004, 02:12:47 PM

pp,

Here's an idea. When you have an urge to bring him his lunch, ask yourself these questions first.

(1) Can he manage5{

(2) In total honesty, do I have any ulterior motives for going to see him?

(4) What do I expect or wish to happen when I see him? Are these expectations realistic?

(5) What is the realistic outcome of going to see him? Do I really want to experience the reality?

(6) Do I think bringing him his lunch will change anything? Is this a fantasy? Should I test it?

bunny

Title: Get This!
Post by: phoenix on February 10, 2004, 02:42:53 PM

bye

Title: BUSY,BUSY,BUSY
Post by: Anonymous on February 13, 2004, 09:59:12 PM

do all narcissists work work work, and say they are busy 24/7?

Title: Get This!
Post by: Anonymous on February 13, 2004, 10:48:53 PM

Yes, and they're so busy they don't even have time to think!
Karin

Title: Get This!
Post by: pp on February 14, 2004, 05:49:37 AM

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Title: Dumber than a dog
Post by: ranting on February 15, 2004, 08:03:00 PM

I have to say... this was priceless!   Good for you, and so dead on!

"I told him go downstairs and call you dog for supper, and when he comes to you, give him a nice hard kick in his face. Then, I said, try calling him again for supper and see if he'll come to you. I told him by asking me to be in your company, to have sex with you, to go out to dinner with you like you haven't violated me in every way possible is telling me that I'm dummer than a dog!!!!