Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: WRITE on November 10, 2006, 09:28:32 PM
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in the books Hops recommended there was a lot talked about how we get too attached to perceived or desired outcomes of relationships, eg don't enjoy courtship because we can't be certain how it will end etc.
Is that cultural, emotional, practical, controlling- what causes us to meet a nice guy and have visions of Thanksgiving with our kids? And how do we stop it?