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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: FallenAngel7 on August 19, 2003, 02:45:59 AM

Title: Saying Hello To All
Post by: FallenAngel7 on August 19, 2003, 02:45:59 AM

Hello all.  I am FallenAngel7.  Like many of you.....I have been looking for some way to find a support system to relieve my stress and anxiety over my dealings with a 'N' person.

I recently found out my Sweet Angel7 (my name for him) is a 'N'.  It hurts, it sucks, it bites...........I want to help him, but right now, we are not speaking to each other (I showed him that I had boundaries one day not long ago).

*sigh*

Therefore....he is 'punishing me'.   :cry:

Of course....I realize what Narcissim really means, and it is heartbreaking.

Title: Re: Saying Hello To All
Post by: October on August 19, 2003, 10:48:47 AM

Quote from: FallenAngel7

....I want to help him, but right now, we are not speaking to each other (I showed him that I had boundaries one day not long ago).

*sigh*

Therefore....he is 'punishing me'.   :cry:

Of course....I realize what Narcissim really means, and it is heartbreaking.

((((((((((((Fallen Angel))))))))))

Sorry to hear you are having a difficult time.  I'm in a similar position with a friend of mine, who exploded at me last week in front of my daughter and a friend of his.  Very difficult.  I am now putting space between us for a while, because the cost of this kind of thing is much higher for me than it is for him.  

Take care.

Title: Saying Hello To All
Post by: mary on August 22, 2003, 03:08:28 PM

My husband punishes me too.  If I go against something  I know I am going to pay  in some way.  It is really tough to make a life with a N.