Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: CB123 on May 21, 2007, 07:49:26 AM
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I just wanted to let you know that we are here for you. If you don't feel safe right now, you need to do what you have to in order to take care of yourself. But we are here--and if you arent, please know that you are never far from our thoughts. Every step that you take in the next few weeks, whether you post or not, remember all of us who are standing with you.
Just a word to anyone here who may be intimidating one of our number by posting as a victim--don't think for a minute that you are gaining anything. You are posting in the midst of a bunch of very strong women and men. We will extend the hand of friendship to you until we know who you are, but we will watch you closely. When the chips all fall where they may, we will still be standing behind the person you are victimizing. You may have a lot of people fooled, but you dont have everyone fooled. So, just be aware.
CB
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CB,
Wow I was thinking the same thing.
Ami,
It is safe here. We are strong like CB said. Safety is in having a voice and voices are heard loud and clear here, all voices. We all stand united behind each other.
I second what CB says.
Love
Deb
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I second what CB says, too. The greatest safety lies not in darkness but in light. Never allow an N abuser to slink off in the night. Raise your voice! Alert everyone! Call attention to it/him! Makes it harder for him to get away with it --- again.
towrite
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I feel sad that Margo disappeared.
Does anyone have any idea what happened?
I know her H was on here in "disguise" once (though we smoked him out in a NY minute), but has he returned? Has she been forced to stop using the board, I wonder?
Maybe all is well and she's just decided to do something different, or not leave etrails...wish we knew.
Hops