Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board

Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: lighter on June 05, 2007, 03:50:35 PM

Title: Blurred Boundaries
Post by: lighter on June 05, 2007, 03:50:35 PM
I'm having a difficult time thinking about my FOO and what everyone's role was. 
Very confusing.

I think that a co dependant parent who allows someone else to step over our boundaries is essentially stepping accross the boundary too.  Yes?

On the other hand, they're a victim as well?  No?

They're co dependant or a victim depending on whether or not they allow their children to be harmed?