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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: lighter on September 02, 2007, 05:38:11 PM

Title: Where's Write?
Post by: lighter on September 02, 2007, 05:38:11 PM

Did I miss something? 

Where's Write?

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: Certain Hope on September 02, 2007, 06:02:04 PM

Lighter,

About a week ago, at her birthday, Write said that she was going to take some time away from the board. That was the last I heard.

Now I see that she has deleted her member account. I don't know.

I hope and pray that Write is well.

Love,
Hope

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: lighter on September 02, 2007, 06:05:39 PM

I tried to find her but she's no longer a registered member, ,Hope, you're right.   

Oh, feeling really really badly about this. 

Bad bad bad.... not good. 

Lighter misses Write: (

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: Certain Hope on September 02, 2007, 06:09:03 PM

It's not necessarily bad, Lighter... just one of those things.

I've deleted my account in the past... and then returned, with the same name.

Really, I'm quite sure it's just one of those things we each experience and find our own unique way of managing.

Love,
Hope

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: lighter on September 02, 2007, 06:54:53 PM

But why does account have to be gone?

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: Certain Hope on September 02, 2007, 07:12:59 PM

I don't know the reasons for anyone else, but for me, I felt safer to close my account... more secure.

At the time, I didn't plan to come back, but I did... right away... but still, even once I reopened my member account, I stopped posting and reading for many months. It can get to be too much for me, I know.

Besides, growing and healing is a very personal endeavor. I remember feeling that I'd put enough of myself out there into the wild blue yonder for a season. Everyone has a different style, too. Personally, I wouldn't want any fanfare.

I dunno, Lighter... everybody's different.

Title: Re: Where's Write?
Post by: lighter on September 03, 2007, 07:45:40 PM

It just feels so empty not to be able to message her..... even if she never came back to read it. 

I'd know it was there.

I know she's moved on and is doing OK. 

Moved beyond the board, and that's the goal, I understand.

That makes it easier to get over my nurturing little baby needs, lol.